How do you say you love someone yet watch them go through pain in the name of love, how do you say you love someone yet watch them cry and beg for your attention, for your loyalty, for your respect, and for you to be faithful to them?
Many people marry or are in a relationship nowadays not because of love, but because they feel lonely, and do not want to be, for security purposes, for financial purposes, for the sake of having children, because they realize you are naive and they enjoy control over others, because that person is the only available person, excuse their excesses, and because they know that person has no option or mind of their own, they do not have a choice.
I won't say it is wrong but the unfortunate thing is that this set of people will end up breeding generations that will take after them, that will never understand the true meaning of love because their parents do not understand, in other words, they groom dysfunctional children and throw them into the world to become a nuisance to the earth. The earth already has enough and does not need that type anymore, we need children from functional homes who will come out with a clear picture of what love is and will portray it to others around.
Imagine a man saying, "Men are polygamous in nature" who gave birth and groomed his set of men if not fathers and mothers who are from dysfunctional homes, and they go about proudly without any atom of shame and still demand submission from their wives just because they are men and are "The head of the house"
I heard someone say "Love without respect is just a habit", and there are no truer words than that, because I do you claim love for someone and yet disrespect them and expect them to understand just because you only " proclaim love to them".
It's dishonesty that would make someone say "A man can love his wife but still have an affair with another woman outside" Having an affair with another woman doesn't stop him from loving his wife, and I asked, who raised this set of humans and they end birthing and grooming men who think the same way like them, howe then would the world become a better place with humans like this.
Why do we even allow them to birth kids, I am thinking about this so bad