What do you honestly think when you see this kiss picture? Do you think something like “OMG! What an immature, attention seeking bimbo!” If you do think this way you may want to ask yourself why you judge me. Why does it trigger you? Which parts of yourself that your suppressing or trying to suppress does it trigger? Which ideas that you have about how grown up women should be does it challenge? Where does these ideas come from? Do you honestly agree with these ideas or is it something that you’re just thinking just because people in general think and judge this way? Some people might find this picture fun, interesting and playful and not judging at all, but this post is not for them. This post is for the people that judge this picture.
Your judgement might depend a little bit on if you’re a male or a female, so I’ll analyze both sexes. Be aware that this analyze might be so hard for you to accept that you’re just going to repeat one word over and over again in your head and this word is “bullshit!” but that actually just confirm my point. Something in you is triggered, the more you’re triggered about my analyzation the more true it is for you. You’re just so unaware of it and it comes with so much shame about yourself that you’re suppressing it hard and deep. So hard and deep that you’re lying to yourself. But I might plant a seed in your mind with this post and it might just change a lot in your life if you can try to read this with an open mind. So keep your mind open and pay close attention to your reactions and ask yourself what they mean.
Male
You might get turned on by this picture but you might even be unconscious about it. Who would be turned on by such an immature, attention seeking cheap slut? Maybe you? You might think that you prefer more mature, well-educated classy girls. Maybe that’s why it triggers you. Would you want this kind of girl as a girlfriend? Maybe not, no? Because all your friends would look down on you and wonder why you hang out with this cheap girl and a lot of time guys want a girl that makes their friends jealous, that adds to their value as a man. Yes, it’s an ego trip! You know that people around you would judge you if you walked hand in hand with this girl in your city. And you don’t want to get judged, it’s not good for the ego! Perhaps it triggers you because deep down you wish you could express you vanity more but that’s usually not aloud being a man. Maybe you actually wanted to try make-up at some point in your life, maybe as a small boy, but that was not allowed because you’re male. So you just suppressed it deep down in your unconsciousness. Perhaps you want to look pretty but you’re super scared that the male friends around you would call you gay if you for example colored your hair, or if you used expensive hair- body- or face care. This might sound very silly to you, but remember, watch for that reaction, try to be really honest to yourself.
Female
If you get triggered by this picture you might have a wish to actually be more like her. Maybe you have a secret wish to be more like a playful, happy bimbo? If you judge her you might think “I’m much better than her, I’m more mature and classier than her! I’m not a cheap slut like her!” Why do you need to be so proper all the time? Why do you look down on girls that are not as proper as you believe you are? Have you always been proper? Have you never had random sex or something wild and crazy? If you had, maybe you’re ashamed of that and take out that shame on girls that’s a symbol for that, cheap bimbos. Perhaps you’re secretly bisexual but suppress that and you’re actually attracted to her? Does that wild and crazy bitch make you feel lame and boring? Do you think that she’s getting all the attention from the guys that they instead should give you? Do you think she’s prettier than you? Skinnier? Younger? Pay close attention to your reactions to this text, what parts of this text make you angry? All of it? That just means it’s spot on! You see, it might be in your unconscious, that means it’s buried deep down in you. Watch for the reaction, try to be honest to yourself!
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves" Carl Jung
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