Genesis 49:3-4
KJV:Reuben, thou art my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power:
KJV:Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father's bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch.
It's possible for someone to have so much ability or be gifted with a certain skill, yet when such a skill is required, that individual isn't chosen, because he or she doesn't have the right character. If you'd build your mind and develop the right character structures, sooner or later, you'll see the manifestations in your personality. Character structure, it means attitudes that you've cultivated over time that control your actions.
For instance, someone may have a great voice but he's unable to make good music. Not because his voice isn't fantastic, but because he's not trained and disciplined to make the most of his gift. We read about Reuben in our vocal verse. Reuben's character and ability collided. He was the beginning of Jacob's strength, the excellence of his wisdom. That means Jacob invested so much in him, but he was unstable as water; therefore, he wasn't going to excel.
Unstable which also means frothiness, to be unrestrained and undisciplined. Reuben was undependable as foamy water. He had the ability to be someone influential and prosperous, but his character wouldn't let him excel.
The ability to take on more assignments because of your performance is an excellent character. That means, you're dependable and when there's an innovation to be actualized, you readily come to mind. But there're those who are never thought of, to handle responsibilities, because they aren't dependable.
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Become the best of by cultivating the right character. Inside you are hidden treasures; you came into this world with a unique personality. Don't waste it just as Reuben, be able to be dependable and cultivate an excellent character do that you can possess your hidden treasures.
There is something you possess that nobody else in the whole world has