Its a new era,a new dawn
Arise from your gullibility
Let go of laziness
Come out of that vulnerable state
Being female is not a crime neither is it a plague
You are beautiful, powerful, insurmountable,a great force to be reckoned with.
Don't just be a slay queen in pictures or one with no brains,slay in your academics, achievements and visions
Never allow anyone make you feel less.No one was born useless,you have got something to offer more than just your bodies
Let your voice be heard,set yourself free from crowd mentality, be different,be unique,think outside the box, when others are standing be outstanding, be the best at whatever you are doing, make right choices in life because what is wrong is wrong no matter how many persons are doing it.
Don't conform for the sake of conforming,learn to stand your ground as a woman,build your confidence but watch pride lest you fall.
Improve yourself,your habits daily,watch your character because a bad character is like a spare tyre it follows you wherever you go.
Expand your circle,check it if you are only surrounded by persons with negative mindset. Surround yourself with like minds.
Break the jinx
Never use the phrase"I am a woman" as an excuse for not excelling in life.Carve a niche for yourself,set principles,targets,have mentors,challenge yourself, if only you know what you want you won't be moved by whatever you hear.What are your dreams and aspirations as a woman? What are your priorities in life?Sweetheart check it if your only dream in life is to get married, your destiny is not tied to one man,the world doesn't revolve around one person. Follow your dreams with the hope of crossing path with your king while chasing your dreams.
A lot of ladies have allowed peer pressure, societal pressure, desperation to push them into marrying the wrong person, it is good to be single praying to be married than to be married hoping to be single.As a lady you need to do some mental push ups before getting into any relationship, do not go into a relationship because:
- You have been single for a very long time
- You think you are getting old and really need to marry
- You want to join the club of those who are in a relationship
- You are broke and need money
My dear you are too precious to be reduced to the level of the above reasons. You really need to know what you want,what is your definition of an ideal man?
On marriage, not all men you see are marriage materials some were not wired that way.Marriage is bigger than the wedding day,asoebis, bridal showers, pre wedding shoots and all the paparazzis that comes with it.Marriage is a school,prepare to learn relearn and unlearn, it is reality.com.
Dear if you are not ready physically, spiritually, financially, emotionally, don't go into it yet,you really need to work on yourself. Work towards being an asset not a liability to your partner. A person need to gain lots of experience before going into marriage. This is why people now marry at a later age (18 and above) because they want to achieve many things before jumping into it.
Marriage is a beautiful thing for those that make it so but there is no required age for marriage. Parameters that act as check mark can help a lady determine how ready they are for marriage.
Your are God's masterpiece and you have a purpose to fulfill before taking a bow. It is never too late to start afresh.
The time is now,avoid procrastination ,start with hands trembling, life is not a bed of roses,get wisdom and in all your getting get understanding and finally,leave your footprints on the sands of time,let the world know A STRONG WOMAN once lived.
YES YOU CAN!!!