Being inlove with someone with no label, can hurt you feelings a thousand than the people who have labels.
Sometimes, we can't stop the heart. When we feel that we love the person, they continue until we reach the point where we don't know that we fall so much to the point that we love them. It's easy to hold back feelings, it's just that sometimes there's a part of us that we're not aware of that we already love that person. Let's just wonder why he seems to be sick even though you don't have a relationship. They say, you can't do anything if people don't want to. We can't force them to rush us or choose us because we like them, there are days when we can't understand why we feel this way or that way, worst is sometimes we can't stop it.
Maybe, sometimes we think that we still have a chance where they can love us back or they can love us for the part that is also our dream. But it's not like that, we can never force someone to love us if only they could, if only we could teach them to love us. Maybe, the best answer is to stop it.
Me, I once experienced begging and forcing someone I shouldn't be forcing. Maybe because I loved him and I was too young at that time to understand the true meaning of love. It's the same when we love them, right? Or not with our partners. When we get to the point where we want to break up, the other side won't listen because they will fight that you love them. They will fight that you are very important to them and they don't want to lose you. That's what they say that if your love is pure, fight for it. and there is a saying that if you love them, let them go.
But what is the correct ways about love?
I believe that if you love the person, let them go. And I also believe that if you love, fight. But for me, whether you love the person or not, you have to have limitations. You should know how much love you have to give. You should know how much love you need to show, not full, and it shouldn't be too much either.
It shouldn't be full because we don't know and we have no idea about their feelings. Because if you love them fully and completely, in the end you will be hurt a lot when they tell you that they don't love you, and they don't want you.
But if you choose, where do you believe? Will you choose when you love them, fight for them, or when you love them, let them go? Me, If I'm the one to ask? give and give your love until you get tired, but once you get tired, stop. Let yourself rest and let your mind be at peace. Because we are the only ones in control of our love. We are the only ones who know if it is right or wrong, not them and not anyone else.
That's why there are people who find it hard to move on, or maybe it takes too long before they can move on because they give the love that they should have in themselves. That's why we also have a hard time forgetting the person sometimes because we keep the memories and we think that it's a waste of things that started which is not supposed to be. We shouldn't regret it, we don't want them to leave us or fall out of love with us.
So always remember, don't regret when you get to the point where you need to let go of someone. God prepared a person for you, you won't be able to meet him right now because there are things you need to learn. And those they have met, you're lucky.
Thankyou for reading!