There's nothing wrong with choosing decisions, sometimes what we thought was the wrong decision is actually the best decision. We don't notice it, because most of the times we are focused on what can be the result, and not on what is for our self.
One of the choices of decision is the right one, and right for us, but there are moments that will distract you too much like is this correct? Or will I just make it worse? Like, "this is wrong, I shouldn't choose this." But, have you ever thought what will be the result if we chose that? I mean, we don't know the result yet so why are you afraid? Are you afraid that the result might be failure? Maybe this result will not be what you think? Wrong, it shouldn't be. Don't be afraid if the result is failure. Always think that not all the time, the decision is right and this is what we want to happen in our lives. Whether it's failure, or whether it's wrong, in the end it will make you stronger, it will bring you to the bravest version of yourself.
Me, I'm not afraid if I stumble, I'm not afraid if I make a wrong decision someday, I'm not afraid if the result is not good. Wanna know why? Because most of the decisions that I choose, most of them were right at a time when I didn't know what to do. Almost every wrong decision that I have chosen, I can see the result when I come to the point where I want to give up on life.
Sometimes, I've been in the middle where I've been so confused. I have no dea for what happened and what I should have done. It is very difficult on my side since I am a breadwinner and I am not allowed to get lost in everything. But look, maybe I chose a wrong decision but that one taught me the right thing and why the decision I chose was right. Maybe, in our fear that we might make a decision, we have forgotten that no, we didn't choose the wrong decision because what we choose is right. It's just wrong for us because we are focused on something else and we don't pay attention to that. And because, it's already on our heads that it shouldn't and it doesn't fit.
Why We Shouldn't Focus On What Result It Might Be?
- We are the only ones who think that the result might be like this, and because of that kind of mindset we are trapped in our minds that it might be this way, or that way. Isn't it when the result is far from what we think that makes us say, "Oh, it's like this." Only then did we realize that it was right. Sometimes, we are already in the part where we are very doubtful because of the result that we think of, because of the things that we think about ourselves without thinking that everything is wrong. So we should not focus on what the result is, we should focus on how we can grow as a person using that decision, how can we grow as a person using wrong decisions? So many questions, not sure of the answer? Ask yourself, "How can I help myself not to think this?"
In our thinking, we will focus on right and wrong decisions, we have forgotten that we all have a stand on something that should bring a lesson in our lives.
The others will tell you, "you stop studying to work, what will you gain from that?". Friend, don't listen. If you see, most of the businessmen and businesswomen in the world are people who work very hard to achieve their dreams. So friend, you are not wrong whatever decision you want to choose and take. If that is your dream and desire, fight for it.
Even if you think the decision you want to choose is wrong, always think that one day the wrong decision will be more than the right decision that will set us free from all sufferings. Just don't give up, don't think about ending your life. Continue what you started, you are there, don't give up.
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