Her name is 
https://steemit.com/steemit/@antonette/dear-steemit-family-a-single-mom-needs-your-friendly-advice
I wrote this for her because i just want to encourage her to never give up!
My Dearest Friend Antonette,
Life is a struggle. It will attempt to break you down when you think things are starting to look up, life will smack you backdown with ruthless indifference. The reason most people never achieve their dreams is because they simply give up! Life was never meant to be easy, its a constant struggle with extreme lows and extreme highs. Your daughter will eventually understand what is going on, explain everything to her. She's old enough to understand things. She should help you not to make your life more complicated. Im sorry for saying this such things but I'm so concern of you. i hope your life will get easier soon my friend.
Trust! about trust! Don't trust people that dont deserve it. So many people broke my trust including my own family. I learned from all my past experiences worst than that. I know its hard to stay strong when you feel like giving up. I've been there! It feels like your world is crumbling down around you and there's no other option. Everyday is a struggle if you have negative mindset.
When you are wallowing in misery, it is very hard to see the good and true potential is inside of you. Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be.
Soon, when all is well, you're going to look back in this period of your life and be so glad that you never gave up! You've got to trust yourself, be gentle to yourself and listen to yourself. You're the only one who can get you through this now. You're the only one who can survive your story, the only one who can write your future. All you've got to do, when your ready, is stand up and begin again!