When you’ve been running a prosperous peculiar growth blog and life coaching business for the better part of a decade, one thing becomes luminous clear:
Everyone has basically the same needs and basic.
Thousands of people who are from different cities and countries of different genetic backgrounds who live at various socioeconomic levels, trust me, every one of us wants the same situations. We want love, validation,fulfillment, happiness, money, and wishes for better future. This is exactly the kind of questions we often ask to ourselves.
*What is worth suffering for?
If you want the advantages of something in life, you have to also want the costs. If you get yourself wanting something month after month, year after year, and yet nothing happens and you don't come nearer to it, then maybe what you actually want is just a fantasy, an idealization, and a false promise. If you want the developed successful business, you have to also want to face the possibility of failing fifty times to learn what you need to know to succeed, the risky business deals and decisions, you don’t actually want it at all, because you’re not willing to suffer though the work it’s going to take to attain it.
*Based on my daily work and routine actions, where can I hope to be in five years?
If you have a plan about what you want the next good steps of your life to look like,so you need to do things that support your this idea daily. Any idea, after all, isn’t going to do any positive thing for you until you do something fruitful with it. Your instinctive mind knows you’re doing on something that is very important to you. The necessary work that you keep delaying causes anxiety, stress, fear and sometimes disappointment.
*What do I need to consume more or less time doing going ahead?
Most of us spend much time on what is urgent but not enough time on what is important. In other words, potential is not just about getting all the things done, it is all about getting the right and positive things done. how you have spent your time ? think over it at the end of each day and adjust the quota, as compulsory for the next day. Try to do best to get rid of your routines complexities sothat you can spend more time on the important and right things.
*In service of what your aims at?
make the targets what you aim at. So think immensely and be a part of something that is greater than you. Some people find refuge in their family or faith, some take an active part in their local city council, and others find zeal and energy in their careers. The psychological outcome is the same in each case. They put themselves in something they strongly believe in and his engagement brings success, happiness,and fruitful meaning into their lives.
*What dont I want others want to know about me?
This question goes to the heart of your uncertainities.problems are a part of everyone’s life. If you try to face them and try to solve them then you are not providing any chance to the people to know about you but they will love you. dominate your self-confidence to the problems. When you make anymistake don't worry. just handle it happily and try to learn from it. Our mistakes and problems are blessings if we use them to make ourselves stronger.
*Are the people around me supporting me or only hurting me?
A big part of your life the friends whom you choose good or bad. They suppport you or just they are the reason of your troubles and tensions? it is better to live separate than to be in bad company. You cannot expect to live a positive life if you are with negative people. If you have bid strength you can be among good friends for ever.
*Conclusion:
Life is filled with unanswered questions at any moment, but everyones needs the courage to seek these answers that continuously give meanings to our lives. Honestly, you can spend your life with great development and excitement.
So I want to know which of the questions above hit you the most? and why?
Share your valuable insights and leave a comment below.