The same with friendships. This is my best friend, since high school. We've actually known each other since elementary school. We don't get to hang out often, because we are both so busy, but when we do we make the most of it. We got to spend the weekend together, catching up on our stories, reminiscing on our shenanigans in high school, laughing. It's strange how you can look at that person you've known so long, at it seems that they still look the same. We are both in our 40's, married. Our kids are grown and gone, with myself entering the fun stage of grandchildren. I don't know if having a friend this long is a common thing, but I do know friends come and go. Some surprise you years later when they pop up. I just know that I appreciate her. I know I can count on her, even when it is inconvenient. She is my sister, my secret keeper, my best friend. She is my precious Ruby.