No body can grow or heal in negative surroundings . Sometimes we are responsible for our own sufferings . Just because of the fear of loneliness we keep every kind of people around us . You can ' t move on while sitting in the room and allowing all negative people , memories and thoughts to chit chat with your mind . You have to start putting barriers and fences around your mind . Accept the reality and start making positive affirmations . Start working on self love . Start facing your fears . Stop getting dependent on people . Stop using healed people to move on . Stop disturbing people ' s mental peace . Start reading about self - worth and start making new belief system . Update your contact list and social media followings . Start following motivators and influencers . Stop talking about your past with everyone . Stop showing the world that you are victim . Stop blaming others . Stop being angry on everyone you hate . Stop doubting everyone .