Stop updating the stories showing anger towards your ex . Stop spreading rumours and fake laughs . Stop being in group that doesn ' t appreciate you . Stop being with someone who gives you mixed emotions . Cut off from everything and everyone for a while to heal yourself . Little negativity can throw you back to the place from where you started . Kill the relationship that does not exist now in your mind . Go spiritual and find someone who talks self - love . Stop all the time pass communications . Start accepting and stop expecting . You deserve more than everything you are dreaming .