In long-term relationships, couples often feel passion slipping away from their sex lives. Such couples often go to great lengths to invigorate their lost passion. From buying bizarre sex toys to trying out crazy positions, they do everything possible to get their intimacy back. But, couples often end up ignoring obvious little things, that can infuse passion back into their lives. These little things are often neglected as normal things. But paying attention to these normal things can bring great changes to your sex life.
- Reconnect With Your Partner
Reconnect with your partner over laughter
Although, it sounds like boring and old advice, it can really change the dynamics in your relationship. Sex is an act of intimacy, and that intimacy will be there only when two people feel connected to each other. So, find a chore or an activity that you both enjoy, and do it together. Share some moments of laughter with each other. Enjoy each other’s company outside your bedroom to make the time inside more enjoy![]
- Tease With Your Words
A flirty message can set the mood
Words can be powerful. Your words have the power to make others feel what you want them to feel. So, use your power well. Make your partner feel good about himself/herself. Compliment your partner about his/her appearance or new perfume. Let your partner know how irresistible he/she is to you. Tease them with your words to spice up things. A sensual compliment, a flirty message can set the mood and get hormones running, even before you make your way to the bedroom.
- Find Perspective From Past
Borrow perspective from your past
Try to remember what made you fall for your partner. Stroll down memory lane to find that quality or quirk that now seems like a distant dream. Relationship experts say that couples often forget the qualities that made them fall in love with each other. So, it is important that you borrow perspective from your past to look at your partner now. This will give you a fresh perspective and will help you find what you thought got lost along the way.
- Change Your Schedule
One of the reasons why people often feel lack of passion, is due to familiarity of schedule. Every Tuesday night at 10, can get repetitive and boring. So, break the habit often to keep your sex life full of passion. Studies have shown that morning sex can be more satisfying and can keep your mood uplifted for the rest of the day. For men, morning sex is even better as their testosterone levels increase all through the night, making them more sexually active in the mornings.
- Speak Up In The Bedroom
Talking can be a foreplay
Talking can be a great act of foreplay. Share your favorite sensual moments with your partner and ask them about theirs. Talking about intimate moments with your partner, can set the mood and get hormones raging with passion. And this way you can relive your favorite sensual moments with your partner all over again.
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- Don’t Make A Monster In Your Head
Over-analysing makes problems worse
We often over-analyse problems and make them worse in our heads. So, try not to make your problems worse than they actually are. And more importantly try not to take grave decisions, based on your assumptions. Effective communication can solve most of our problems. So, try not to overthink it, but rather live it.
Passion between couples is never lost, but sometimes it can become dormant. Little effort and little changes can bring back that passion with vigor.
From
AJ Singh