Every time a situation in my life starts to feel crappy to me, I start arguing with someone or feeling rejected by something, I try to remember this and instead of reacting to the situation, I try to explore what it is inside of me that is causing me the bad feelings.
If you are feeling neglected by a friend or a lover, you are probably neglecting yourself. If you are feeling loved by life and the things in your life you are probably being loving yourself.
I found that a lot of time a lot of my peace of mind was being robbed by the fact that I though other people's feelings towards me were a reflection of my own Inadequacies. No one on this earth can see further than our own mind.Everything anyone else is doing or feeling in relation to you, whether that means someone is offended by you, rude to you or loving to you is a reflection of how they are feeling on the inside, but they are not saying something about you. When someone rejects you they are setting you free for the ones who accept you.Don't be discourage over what turns out to be a blessing.