I really don't blame people who react with Violence to violence because everyone seems tensed especially with the current situation of the country and passing derogatory remarks to another person will not sit well with that person hence the question of how should someone deal with it or what you tell someone do in that situation is dependent on the person psychological and physical well-being at that particular time. So people might become and collected at that time why all that may respond violently.
However, if I find myself in such a situation where someone passes derogatory or negative comments to my personal being it would hurt me at first and my instinct at that moment would be to react and give them back to back. And like I said earlier, the approach you take in this way depends on your what you aim to achieve as the end goal.
Sometimes the sayings that goes silence is the best answer for a fool can be helpful is such moments ignoring the person can be powerful periods i have also come to notice that when you don't engage some ignorant and of nauseous people when they are disrespectful it saves your energy.
But if the person is persistent i would not advise that you go away quietly but rather address the situation by informing the person to never say such words at you again. Set a boundary, address the situation make your point and let it be heard.
You are at a party, and someone is saying derogatory remarks (or negative things) about you. How would you deal with it, or what would you do?
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