You've decided to propose to your girlfriend but first you need some ideas on how to do it. The good news is that you came to the right place. In this article, we will discuss some romantic ideas on how you can propose to a girl based on the type of person she is.
We will also discuss a few basic concepts so that you can increase your chances of getting a "yes" at the end of all your planning.
Understanding a Woman’s Idea of Marriage
The first thing for a man to realize is the significance of a proposal to a woman goes beyond words. It is a moment where she decides if she is willing to share her body, heart, mind, soul and life with the man who is proposing.
For a woman who considers herself a person of depth and meaning, she is looking for the man in her life to find out what is important to her and build a proposal based on those aspects.
Ideas of How to Propose to Your Girlfriend
Basing a proposal on the type of woman you are proposing to makes it much more likely that you'll get a "yes." Find the type of person your girlfriend is listed below, and see the associated ideas on how to propose to her. You can modify these ideas or incorporate multiple ideas into one for a truly original experience for her.
The Sentimental Woman
If the woman is sentimental, she probably would love a proposal that reflects something special based on when and where you were when you both first fell in love, went a first date, or some other special occurrence in your relationship. These are the best ideas to propose to a sentimental woman.
At Theater or During a Show - A proposal at a theater with a show, musical, or play that she loves. Consider getting in touch with the play's organizers to see if characters from the show may be willing to assist during intermission or after the end of the event.
Her Favored Animal Farm - An animal farm (such as a horse farm if she is a horse lover) can make a great proposal. This is especially true if she has some fond memories at that location with you. Involve a favorite animal of her's in the proposal.
Her Childhood Hometown - Ask her lots of questions prior to a trip to her childhood hometown to learn of a special place for her and consider doing the proposal there. Consider asking a childhood friend of hers for assistance.
On a Dinner Cruise - A dinner cruise out on a bay, lake, or ocean can be a very romantic setting for a proposal. This is especially true if your girlfriend loves water or has special memories involving the water.
At a Concert of Her Favorite Band - This is an even better idea if it is a favorite band for both of you. A romantic dinner beforehand, surprise tickets during the meal, and a proposal at the show could be a winning combination. Consider talking to the concert's organizer before to see if you can have a moment during the show (or just prior to her favorite song starting) to pop the question.
Your Favorite Getaway, Restaurant, or Resort - If as a couple you have a favorite place such as this, consider booking a visit there and incorporating a proposal into the trip.
A Special Quiet Beach - A beach that you and your girlfriend have great memories at can be the perfect place. Pack a picnic, bring some romantic music, watch the sunset, say your speech, and get down on one knee!
An Amusement Park - At an amusement park you two have shared memories at. You can even consider a proposal during a special ride or amusement that she loves. If you do this, make certain the ring is secured and doesn't fly off your ride!
A Helicopter Tour over Her Home Town - A sentimental type of girl will love to fly over her home town and point out various locations from her childhood to you as you go. The proposal can be done in the air, during a picnic after you land, or you can have a message written on the ground in big letters that she reads as you fly overhead.
A Holiday Proposal - A Christmas, New Years Eve, Valentines Day, Birthday, or other holiday proposal can be a big hit. A gift of a box with just a note inside setting you up for the proposal could be a great way to pop the question. If a certain holiday is her favorite and she has fond memories attached to it, choose that holiday.
The Nature Lover
If she is a naturalist, there are thousands of great parks and nature preserves across the globe. Picking one that she would find special can happen easily with a few conversations about favorite spots you could visit together to enjoy nature.
If most of the destinations are far away, it would be a good idea to narrow down in another conversation to great places you could go for a weekend nearby. Great spots to propose to a nature lover include the following.
State or National Parks - A hike to a beautiful location at a state or national park with a romantic picnic basket lunch could be just the ticket. Toss in some music and a slow dance up on a bluff with a good view, and you've got yourself an engagement.
Wildlife Preserves - A wildlife preserve is another great idea for a nature lover. Have one of the animals bring her the ring before getting down on one knee. Talk with staff and they may be able to help in other ways you haven't thought of.
Vineyards - If your girlfriend loves wine, consider taking her wine tasting and on a tour of the vineyards in the wine country. This can be a beautiful setting for a proposal. Leading her out into the vineyard to an awaiting picnic and bottle of wine might be just what she needs.
A surprise picnic in the vineyards after wine tasting is a great time to pop the question.
A surprise picnic in the vineyards after wine tasting is a great time to pop the question.
Seaside or Lake Tours - See some beautiful scenery and have a romantic excursion such as with a seaside or lake tour. During the tour, plan it so you can take over the intercom or microphone (if it's a guided tour) and make your proposal.
Mountainous Trails - Plan a hike to a beautiful location or even something a little more challenging that will require some teamwork to get you to your destination. Once there, you can even incorporate team work into your speech to her before popping the question.
Botanical Gardens - Go to some botanical gardens and find the most beautiful spot ahead of time. Then when the big day comes and you are there with your girlfriend, you will know which location to make your proposal at.
Apple Picking - Book a tour of an apple orchard but make sure you have a chance to go picking a basket of apples on your own. Setup a romantic picnic that you stumble upon and eat lunch at. Pop the question on a bended knee in the middle of the orchard.
The More Practical Woman
If the woman is more practical, that does not mean she does not feel deeply as well. But this type of woman would want to know that the man she is marrying is stable and respects her need for stability and private sentiment.
This woman more than likely would not want an extravagant proposal. Fancy locations are not everything, but proposals from the heart to a woman are. This is especially true if she is more of the quiet type. Here are some great ideas for the more practical woman.
A Quiet Dinner Out - A quiet dinner out at a favorite restaurant or possibly the first restaurant you dined at together. Have a waiter (or manager) come out with only the ring, displayed in it's box, on the platter. Have it set down in front of her, hand her some flowers, get down on one knee, and make your case for marriage.
Backyard Picnic - A surprise picnic in the backyard can make this type of woman very comfortable. Consider having music, champagne, and romantic music. Lye on your backs and watch the clouds before asking for her hand.
A Close Family Member's House - If your girl is exceptionally close to a certain family member or their parents, consider proposing at their residence. Make a day of it and your speech can mention making her family your family too.
A Dinner for Two at Home - Surprise her with a home cooked meal, romantic music, and candle light. Have a token from early in your relationship (such as an early love note) to give her after the meal. Then ask for her hand in marriage.
The more practical and quiet type of woman can appreciate a sentimental gesture after a romantic meal for two at home.
The more practical and quiet type of woman can appreciate a sentimental gesture after a romantic meal for two at home.
Rooftop Sunset Viewing - Tell her you are working on the roof but use the time to setup a picnic. Around sunset call her up top to a surprise meal, sunset, and a long meaningful talk about your relationship. Get on one knee about the time the sun hits the horizon.
Childhood Home - Find a way to incorporate your girl's childhood home into a great proposal. If she is the quiet type, it could be great for it to be just the two of you. Listen to her childhood stories and then tell her you want to make more memories, with just her, for the rest of your life.
A Website - Buy a [name]willyoumarryme.com or other similar website. Setup a touching video to play on the main page of the website showing the journey you have taken together. A touching song, some pictures of you together, and a closing proposal question will make the video complete. Set her web browser to open to this page on startup and be ready to be there on one knee after she watches it. For some great memories, set her webcam to record her reaction.
Proposing to the More Adventurous Woman
For the adventurous woman, there are many great locations to propose. This type of woman may very well want a private proposal, but usually a very adventurous one.
This woman would typically feel that while they were enjoying their mutual love of adventure together it would be a perfect time for a proposal. Here are some possibilities for the adventure or adrenaline lover.
Mountain Climbing Adventure - A proposal on the cliff side overlooking a beautiful valley with a few special words could have her heart fluttering. Be cautious though of the surprise factor of the proposal and any related safety issues that could arise.
Snow Skiing/Snow Boarding - Snow skiing or snow boarding in some remote forested location, off the beaten trail, can be a great adventure. It also very often leads to some stunning views. Consider having a helper tailing you who can show up at the right time with music, champagne, and a picnic.
Hiking or Backpacking - Hiking or backpacking through some rough terrain or tough conditions could be what this type of woman lives for. An adventure like this often takes teamwork to get through, and this can be the perfect precursor to a "yes!" Consider asking during a quiet night around the campfire.