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From now on, I would like to post my daily life.
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His First Feet Stamp
Yes, I am married. My husband is and we have a child. We have been dating last 3 years and eventually made to the next level of life, marriage. The 3 year dating was amazingly fun. Yes, absolutely we have had a lot of fights too. Being a couple for a long time is not that easy. But we made it and then finally our love fruit came to the world in early this year.
I was staying in the family delivery room to meet my child
Finally we met ❤️HIM❤️!
MY "🐮" ROOM
After labour, had quick treatment and had to go to my room. Yes, Korea labour system is a bit different. Doctors think mothers' physical condition is the most important so let them stay 3 days in hospital for natural birth while C-section can stay a week for recovering.
The view from my Recovery Room
Then, I had to move into another place. Since I was pregnant, I had to consider how long I stay in the recovery centre like a week or 2 weeks. And what room I should pick then I could think about how much I had to pay. Yes, you might think what it is. The centre is for fresh mothers who deliver a child and after birth, they can stay and rest and recover physically and mentally. Most centres are in the obstetrics and gynecology hospital together and while you stay, anytime whenever you need some medical treatment or service, you can ask to see your own doctor too. Also the centre offers classes for how to be a mother after going home like training for breastfeeding, changing diapers, and bathing. Sometimes there is a class for fresh fathers too as same as mothers. One of the best things the centres give is good meal system and other caring service for mothers.
Lunch of My First day in the centre
One Dinner while Staying
Meal Planner
They always check mothers what they can eat or can't. Or care what they like or dislike. So they replace always what mothers ask and serve every meal very carefully.
Between meals, SNACK TIME
I miss the snacks so much, so nice ☹️
HERE OTHER SERVICES IN THE CENTRE
Classes for how to be a mum
Practice with this little baby doll
Craft time for making a focusing book.
Massaging Booth
There are more personal hair care service and massaging services offered from the centre. If you make schedule you can get free service once and from the second you can pay and get whenever you want. So I had personal massage session every morning. It made me have great morning start. Absolutely it helped to lose a bit of weight and back to what I used to be.
Early morning person could get toast and juice and coffee
Those are not for mothers actually but for fathers who are staying with their wives to support in the centre. Yes, it is possible for newbie dad to stay together but they can't commute to work because of the covid-19 protocols and regulations of the centre. So it means those for the husbands who are grounded with wives in the centre.
Breast pumping machine and Bum-pillow
🦸 MY BEST FRIENDS 🦸
Only mothers know these good friends for survival from the babies for the first few months. Yes, breasts were on fire so I had to do massage or pump every 3 hours. And my bottoms were also hurt the donut-shaped pillow save me so much for sitting. If you have a question, you should tell your mom thank you so much to deliver me on the earth and survive from all hurts then she would answer whatever you ask.
THE MOST INTERESTING PART, HERE WE GO!
GUESS ❓ WHAT IT IS ❓
After birth, the bottom is super hurt and you might not be able to think how worse but I can say it was the worst part of labour. For recovering, I had to see my doctor sometimes and sit on this funny toilet. It is called sitz bath, which mean literally you sit and get some warm enough water and do short bathing for the bottom. For my whole life, it was quite interesting to try and do on this red toilet. But after a few times, felt better and quite okay to try to sit without any physical help like bum pillow.
In our culture, it is important that mothers should be cared much better then babies can get good cares from them about delivering a child. That is why we have those kinds of labour recovery centres. It was quite great week to spend my last holidays in the centre before going home with our little human. Being a mum is not that easy like you can jump into the role right away after birth. Fresh mothers always need some prep time to recover and get ready to be a real mum. At least I had good time there and so far I have been survived well. Now I want to tell fresh mothers,
Don't be afraid
because you are already a great mother 👩👦❤️