When someone is hurting anyone, it will definitely be uncomfortable, but don't let that taste continue to fool your heart. Really all of that is the way from God so you can learn to be patient and sincere.
Therefore, when someone is hurting you endlessly, learn to soften your heart to forgive. Maybe it was difficult at first, but when you learn God willing it will slowly be easy.
Yes, try to learn even though the nature is difficult, because softening the heart must indeed be done by learning and continuing to learn.
And do not you think the person who is patient is not taking the path of upset or not receiving it as you feel, because he must have passed that phase, only he was able to withstand the feeling of being turbulent with patience.
Then, when you feel so bad when you are hurt, then hurry and throw away that feeling. Don't let your heart rise with hatred.
Remember, God is all perfect and high is always able to forgive the faults of his servants, especially those of you whose status is only a servant who has nothing.
Then think wisely before your heart freezes with hatred, think about how God forgives your mistakes, and you should also not be selfish in forgiving others' mistakes.
After all, it could be that the bad treatment that comes from someone else is a way from God so you can practice your patience.
So forgive him for hurting, if it's hard to press your heart to always be able to learn. Because the more you forgive in your pain, the more noble you are on His side.
Because the reward and the glory of those who are patient are truly great. So train yourself to always be patient in the face of all the difficulties of life, more precisely the bad treatment of others.
So, even though it hurts so much you still forgive, do not let your heart be hard with hatred and resentment, because God is very displeased when you do so.
Believe me, God sees all your efforts in being patient and forgiving, and after that he will keep his promises to give you a lot of good.