Over a while I observed that there has being a neglect of the girl-child or put it: a female child. I am a young man of 25years who has related with ladies and have seen the negative impact of the neglect of the girl-child by the parents and society at large.
Many parents now over look the schooling of their daughters because they feel she will soon be married out and her life will end in the kitchen but that’s not true in any way. Women are doing great exploits in our day than even some men.
The female child is not a sex machine neither is she meant for the kitchen alone. This is a mentality that many are having about the girl-child and this has killed potentials in young minds because they feel their worth ends in the kitchen.
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A man's daughter can't end in my kitchen. My five years on campus, i have being preparing all I eat and I think that factor helped my decision not to have a girlfriend. My daughter can't end in a man's kitchen because she was not created to end her life cooking. Let the husband learn how to cook.
When I give counsel to ladies at times about marriage, I tell them If the man can not cook then don't marry him or let him learn to cook.Why? You really want to know why? Then stay close to a pregnant woman and you will see your future very clearly.
The girl is also human and was given birth to with some potentials to attain greatness in life.
Two Great Steemians Who Are Beyond Just Females
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I met her through a group on whatsapp and we became friends. She graduated as a Pharmacist at age 20 and this April is her induction to get her certificate. She can further her academics to any level since she is still young. Beside being a pharmacist, she writes and sings well too. I have listened to few of the competitions she entered for singing.
She is a mother, a wife and a chemist with her PHD, and also a cryto enthusiast. Has a caring heart because I have benefited from her generous heart and care.
They are both beyond just a female.
Challenge To The Girl-Child
Don’t depend on a man for everything whether married, single or in a relationship. Work out things with your hands and the men will respect your dignity.
There is greatness in you! Yes I mean you reading this! Don’t neglect yourself to the background and feel you are not needed in the society. That’s not true my friend, go through history and you will discover what women have done and are still doing.
There is common saying among women what a man can do, a woman can do it better but I can only agree with that when I see what you have done beyond just being a lady.
God did not create you to end in the kitchen! , be relevant, be useful and don’t die a nobody!
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Thank you for reading.