If asked about tips for maintaining a long lasting relationship with a partner, the answer is only one: Communication. How can two different people live together if communication between them is bad? That is a mystery.
My marriage has been going on for almost 8 years, if you add up our meetings and introductions, it has been more than 13 years. I consider and accept that my wife can be my partner, that's why I chose her.
Our good communication is because we listen to each other and are also interested in each other, it's like the same frequency, even though our backgrounds are different. We chat not only in the room, at home, I also really like to invite her to a cafe while drinking coffee and eating cake.
Even this morning, I knew my wife's mood seemed bad. Sure enough, it was very apparent from how she did her morning ritual. I invited her to have breakfast and coffee, I found her favorite place.
This cafe could be her favorite because it has dirty matcha and various patisserie. Not only is it visually attractive but it tastes good. Seriously, I know this because my wife loves the cakes here. Anything, from croissants to even cakes with strong flavors.
They have a lot of menus, not only coffee, matcha, even apart from cakes there are also pasta and various kinds, from snacks, main menus, beverages and also specialty tea. Every time we come here, we order different foods and drinks. Nothing fails, even getting addicted to wanting to keep ordering others so we can find out the most delicious food among the delicious ones.
Here this time I ordered an Americano as a beverage, I can't do without coffee in the morning, caffeine has become my blood, it must be topped up every day. Of course with burnt cheesecake that we can share together, because I will order the main course: prawn aglio olio.
The size of the prawns is quite large as protein, very aromatic olive oil and a little grated parmesan on top is enough to make me very full this morning. It turns out that breakfast like this makes my heart so happy.
Restoring my wife's mood by bringing her delicious food is my role as a husband, even though I can't be perfect for her, at least I try to always be there. At least I can buy her delicious food this morning.
Call me Isdarmady, sometimes Mady, Putra or anything you want. I have a pretty long name but call me very nicely. There are many things I like, especially hydroponics and coffee, sometimes I also like traveling and eating whatever I want. Life should be like that, there must be many things you like so you can live well. Of course, what you want is a dream, so, when you have a dream then what you have to do is to achieve that dream, don't just let it be a dream.
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