Love makes the world go around, love keeps things interesting and love can also hurt more than anything else in the world but in truth, love is inevitable, it’s like a never-ending cycle of us loving other people or things and being loved as well. Most times we get to a place in our lives where because of a bad or ugly experience we had in love we decided we don’t want it anymore and we want to close up and live our life in peace without the fear of heartbreak or the other baggage that comes with love but even that doesn’t last long as love always finds it’s way back into our lives to warm us up and make us smile again which is the reason why am writing this piece, below are signs to prove cupid has shot it’s tiny little arrow and it hit your heart, if you find yourself doing any or all the things in the list below, just know you are in love, yes in love, so here goes number one
1. ALWAYS ON YOUR MIND
If you always find yourself thinking fondly of a person even when you don’t want to your mind always wanders back to them and the thoughts are always pleasant then yes, you are falling in love with that person if you have fallen already
2. THOUGHT OF THEM MAKES YOU SMILE
The thought of the other person always makes you smile or laugh, you remember the things the said and the way they said it even when their words are not addressed to you and you find it funny, interesting or cute, then you are definitely in love with that person
3. MIMIC
When talking to them maybe on the phone, you lower your voice to sound like them or you speak in a different tone than you would normally use to talk to other people, then yes you are talking to your significant other
4. TIME FLIES
When you are in the company of someone you love time loses it’s meaning, you can spend hours, days or weeks together and it would still be like you just saw each other, when this happens, you my friend is in love
5. YOU CARE ABOUT THEIR OPINION
When you begin to care about what someone thinks about your hair, your dressing, your make up and other stuff, it shows they mean more to you than every other person, you want to be the best you can be for the person you care about
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6. THE FUTURE
When you can’t help imagining what she’d be like as your wife or what he’d be like as your husband or what your kids would look like then you my friend is living in love planet, you are smitten
7. THEIR MOOD AFFECTS YOURS
When you are in love with someone you tend to be protective of them which is why you will become sad when they are sad or happy when they are happy, you are intertwined in your feelings for each other
8. YOU SAY THE 3 MAGIC WORDS WITHOUT THINKING
Some people are very careful when it comes to saying the three words because of a lot of reasons ranging from appearing too needy or moving too fast but when you truly love someone you don’t really care, you just say the words without thinking about the consequences
9. YOU STARE
Yes, you look at someone you love longer than you’d normally stare at a person in admiration, if you also smile while doing this then you are smitten
10. YOU CAN’T BEAR TO SEE THEM HURT
When you really love someone, they are always on your mind and you always want them to be okay, to be secure, to be safe and feel loved, which is why you would do your best to make sure they know just how much you love them.
If you find yourself doing any of the above or all, then yes you are in love and it’s a beautiful thing, not most people get to experience true and sincere love in their lives so if you get it, enjoy, cherish and preserve it.