<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 13:00:14 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@jaje/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Arniston Shipwreck off the coast of South Africa]]></title><description><![CDATA[Shipwreck - Arniston Image Source The Indian and Atlantic oceans meet at Cape Agulhas, the seas are very rough and there are over 140 ships that have been wrecked on that coast at Waenhuiskrans. There]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/shipwreck/@jaje/the-arniston-shipwreck-off-the-coast-of-south-africa</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/shipwreck/@jaje/the-arniston-shipwreck-off-the-coast-of-south-africa</guid><category><![CDATA[shipwreck]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2017 08:26:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/EfcLDDAkyqguB6US989oZwivpkiQkbQtyEhCwNtiKP73JS2ikgNqvnXW7tyDi6RapN8oSv6MkGXQLQgmfUA9guTKGcTW6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reaching 70 -]]></title><description><![CDATA[Image Today is my seventieth birthday. As I look back on the past, I did all the usual things, school - the less said the better. I worked in various offices, with receptionist being the job I liked best.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/birthday/@jaje/reaching-70</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/birthday/@jaje/reaching-70</guid><category><![CDATA[birthday]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Sep 2017 14:31:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/54TLbcUcnRm4iYtFdzVNy1kt3F2tvRShXkTnWxjMquosSLbbi7PacvotigCTxgqUqvWE5igF6iAZnhdvbFcYMNVM5Pc1RiBKowyaxLtT89oubQuJ1GmDczHMyCPi96jrRAtFr1WQE?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Most embarrassing]]></title><description><![CDATA[We had been at the 'going out' stage for months and then there was a romantic proposal, down on one knee in a restaurant, which was accepted with happiness. The whole restaurant applauded. 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We lived in Ladysmith, in the middle of KZN (KwaZulu-Natal) We decided to go to Cape Town for our holiday. 1,600 kilometres, in a car with three children, ages]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/south-africa/@jaje/a-better-holiday</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/south-africa/@jaje/a-better-holiday</guid><category><![CDATA[south-africa]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 02 Sep 2017 08:55:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/JvFFVmatwWHVQPjDcGkFxELgGtwNAntRtiqDuEyyAFY9PSdcGJD7CXfNqWtcQd9nGoDP1H86TsfoZABCvtroovFY1Fo92HDmLQ6QJNskXCA72dFJboT1tBuHc67cbY2VDERj37kbHg?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Job hunting]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have written 2 blogs so far about my search for work when my children were old enough to manage with a part-time mother. After working in shops owned by my daughter and son-in-law for a couple of years,]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/bookshop/@jaje/job-hunting</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/bookshop/@jaje/job-hunting</guid><category><![CDATA[bookshop]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 26 Aug 2017 10:06:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/3W72119s5BjWPGGUiZ9pqnZoj8JHYxCCp9dtn2QVfziCxUi3fbLmn7wyHesEt2yXKUqHMMXni4TrF2dRe4DF1PJ7d9N6ZEiAN5FtqaizfU1LVHyHYWkvT8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[A memorable family holiday]]></title><description><![CDATA[We were a family of five, the regulation Mother and Father, 2 daughters and 1 son. We lived inland, far from the sea, and we were finally going to Port Edward on holiday. 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That made me remember how we spent our twelfth anniversary with my husband in the hospital]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/unhappiness/@jaje/anniversaries</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/unhappiness/@jaje/anniversaries</guid><category><![CDATA[unhappiness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Aug 2017 14:39:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP5xqHVTtgzxr9jRnPYTxeDK7ZMexdNfArMDTPKQbauVxWrP4W34T3XBNzVtyYxeHtSq3zwuXJiTPJb94MGwATvKKdDe7qhoUNRVoKU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Living with an alcoholic, my story.]]></title><description><![CDATA[I read a blog about addiction the other day. I would like to write about the others involved in the situation. My husband started drinking heavily after our children were born. 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When]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/south-africa/@jaje/a-ghastly-scene-awaited-our-eyes</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/south-africa/@jaje/a-ghastly-scene-awaited-our-eyes</guid><category><![CDATA[south-africa]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 22 Jul 2017 10:02:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/D5zH9SyxCKdBnJaFeHnL3svQi9ZN2XzXDbzH7WcA1NkPjDNDGCdSDChpgzBXinBfWXHGFZW7LyF7vVfGzpmAtk4tp6wrmD25jXyD9R9vyubdkxMyXN9UPi1m7JZdyeArK46snv?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Treat your feet]]></title><description><![CDATA[Over the years I have studied various things, a course in herbalism, English and Afrikaans so that I could get a better qualification, Office work and computers at a Technical College, in the hope of going]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reflexology/@jaje/treat-your-feet</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reflexology/@jaje/treat-your-feet</guid><category><![CDATA[reflexology]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jul 2017 14:53:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2N61tyyncFaFnNFKLegVvzmsrMAExSDXzsHdqwaiT1iWhNnkK9TiwURikaRD9Gv4n9fJBNzk5u1RyBCpQS1wgvFRYDXHQ25CVGshDbVM2Y4orEwimQ54AMAn51Aw3v35oDuRxswYuFjU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Gem Club Gemboree]]></title><description><![CDATA[We both fell in love with gem stones when my husband retired. 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They very romantically got engaged on Valentine's Day; and then all the parents started getting]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/relationship/@jaje/getting-married</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/relationship/@jaje/getting-married</guid><category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaje]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jun 2017 08:30:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/D5zH9SyxCKdBnJaFeHnL3svQi9ZN2XzXDbzH7Wc9pt1zdTYrzWQAFeiwgXwTmqpYaj7BjwmBpWTRX6G95B5zh2JMdcDRuGohV8thhrjhkL7aJUTcQnhf4Ko7bNgsQwy79DGZ6n?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Doing it alone.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Image - Pexel Charles and Debbie were in a two year old relationship in which they were very happy; and were planning their marriage when Charles met someone else and ended the relationship. 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