I like people who make courageous decisions in the most difficult moments. Those who choose what they really want ... in the face of what seems logical or coherent in the eyes of others; what is more, they do it in the hardest moments, when everything seems to go wrong, saying to oneself "If there is anyone who puts on me, it is myself" . I love people who, with respect, free themselves from those chains that all seem to attach to those who have helped us; who do not mix this debt, if it exists, with their liberty.
We have all already had this feeling of gravity, we already recognize it in children: many, when their parents buy them a toy, become more obedient. Because they have integrated in their way of acting the principle of reciprocity. If not, there are many parents who remind them of this "debt" (let's call it that). "Hey, do not do anything stupid because I bought you a toy! "," Today we stayed at the park for a long time so put your room away! "
Honest and sincere
People who make courageous decisions in difficult times are honest and give up being in two places at once when it is not possible. Those who decide "It's my turn to play". These people are wonderful because they respond and nurture the most powerful force they enjoy. The vital force.
I admire these people who know how to define themselves, who have clear priorities and who understand that, at certain times, to maintain them means to make sacrifices. And they do them, even if what they lose or leave behind hurts them.
Be it because they put their family first and do not lose those wonderful routines they created with it, even for the best offer in the world; because they know perfectly well that their work is their priority and that they are ready to move from city to city to do what they really like.
People who make courageous decisions in difficult times are sincere with themselves and do not pretend or aspire to set a goal they can not achieve. They do not pretend to be what they are not. They say "OK, a day is 24 hours, not 48" and do not try to do more. They do not force themselves; they do not force others to come to where they can not go. They do not make a time trial; they do things when they want. If they know they do not have time to have children, or they find that time, or they do not have children, but they do not turn others into parents or transform their lives into a sacrifice constant
They know their luck
When I connect with people who are capable of making courageous decisions in difficult times, I know what to expect; I can more or less appreciate them, but what they say and what they do go hand in hand. What they say they try to change, they try to change; and when they say no to something, they have their reasons.
I appreciate people who can make courageous decisions in difficult times because they do not forget how lucky they are: because their heart beats, because they can nurture hope, because they have a body that is the most perfect and useful machine that any other created from technology. Because they breathe. Is not it fantastic to breathe? Breathe in yourself. Breathe by yourself. Inhale the air and exhale it.
I appreciate them because they love life, because they are able to build a positive story, to fight for justice, even knowing that this world is not fair and that some, because you do it , say that you are an idiot. I appreciate them because they recognize their faults but never stop trying despite them. They may not be very "manual" but they are there, on a scale, trying to change the bulb that does not work anymore. Whether they have few or many, they try to use all their skills and run a pretty good risk. The nice risk of learning.
They have fears, like the others, but they understand that they are part of the game. Some break when they get closer and others, on the contrary, grow up. Try? Why not? Does not the baby throw his spoon to know how gravity works? These are people who keep throwing spoons because they are full of curiosity. And because they have faith, more than anything else; that is why they are able to make courageous decisions in difficult times.
