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Cheating could be so easy for some people but before cheating on your partner and betraying their trust, I will like you to think about this tips below:
Your Promises.
I'm sure before a guy walked up to a girl to tell him about his feelings for her and how he'd like them to be in a serious relationship, he'd promise her the world and how much he'll never make her cry. Think about the promises you made to your partner before going into a relationship with them and put yourself in their shoes. Imagine promising your partner an undying love and happiness and end up giving them reasons to hate you and making them cry well the time, if it was you they mad an unfulfilled promise to, how would you feel?.Trust.
Someone who has been cheated on will find it very difficult to trust their partner again. And as we all know a relationship without trust is very hard to stand strong. You might try to make things right and pick off what's left of your relationship but as long as your partner has caught you cheating on the, it will be very difficult for them to trust anything you say or do. Are you really willing to go through a relationship where every little action you take or any word you say is been questioned?Your marital vows.
In the altar when you two were declared one, your partner was more than happy to exchange rings with you and they meant every vow they said that day. Why break your marital vows? Funny enough that Lil girl you're cheating on your wife with will not stand with you when you're financially down. Those girls come to collect form you and when you don't have to give anymore, they'll leave like you as quick as possible. The man you're eyeing even when you know you're a married woman is a home destroyer, they won't be with you through the hard days. Be wise and make sure it's worth taking the risk before doing something. Breaking your Marital vows for anyone if you truly love and value your family.Good/bad example.
Before you cheat on your partner, be sure you're setting a good example for your choosing and people who look up to you as a role model. Would you like you children to learn something as bad as cheating on your partner from either of their parents?Think about your partner.
I'm bringing this tip last but hey it's not the least. I think this is the most important of them all. Think of your partner before pressing the Cheat button. How would they take it, matter act will they be able to take it? They should come first so you should always secure their interest before doing something good that you know will hurt them.
Whether they're your wife/husband or just your girlfriend/boyfriend please try not to hurt your partner by cheating on them. Some men even do it to the knowledge of their wives. I know an exams and record worker in my school who accommodates his girlfriend in his house at work to even the knowledge of his wife. The girlfriend sometime calls the wife and pour abused on her. It's uncalled for. If you want to cheat or if you cannot hold yourself as a man, why disrespect your wife to the extent of letting her know you're cheating on her. I will drop my pen here for now....
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