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I'm found myself to be more complicating, more contradicting as well as more austere in the most unlikeliest of situations however this is influenced by the fact that life doesn't come with a designated script. and that's why I feel that there are many fate etched all at once and there are some certain kind of actions and events that will unlock a particular fate. That said, some certain stage in our lives we don't have the luxury of having someone make our decisions and this is a stage where we make or mar things for us and of course whether it's make or mar one thing is certain; we'd never be the same in any of the two
As for me, I've been an ardent listener myself and listening to people, their stories, their triumph and mistakes has formed some perception of my mindset. One the reasons why people forget to listen in the height of events happening in their lives or others is because they're too hasty. One thing about life is that it's a complex process and requires observation in other for one to be a master in handling events and situations of life. Of course patience isn't man's strongest suit because it's truncated by things like curiosity and a desire to move quicker than one is designated to do.
In other words, impatience truncates the need for one to be thorough and detailing. Life's been taken more like a race rather than an individual process and this is why people can't even evaluate their lives and understanding the most intricate things about it. Sometimes we achieve things by just observing. Observation to many seems like a waste of time; the concept of time has made many people concentrate on the ticking of the time and what could be done in a "less time" and this is now like a rat race that maddens people.
So practically there's this thickness of skin, it's like a stage where one's learnt to do otherwise contrary to what they've being doing all their lives and it's by being hit from constant mistakes. I've seen every thing life can offer and that's not because I'm a master in the art of experience but because I've taken less time to observe rather than taken the more rigorous route of going throughout the focal or the most reoccurring theme of this publication is that sometimes we don't need to do anything when we rather feel obliged to.
The most important things in life aren't even so obvious and we only come to know about them simply because we seek to, and sometimes seeking seems rigorous it seems unpleasant and unachieving. Humans are die hard sucker for achievement and this has a rather positive sides nevertheless it's important we ask ourselves some questions before we conclude on what's important for our life and what isn't.
Interested in some more of my works?
The Dangers And Futility Of Being Driven By Vengeance As A Purpose
Preventing The Self From Hitting The Ultimate Boredom Of "Over-Accomplishment"
The Bridge Between "Economic And Politics" In Any Political System Of Governance
The Distinctive Nature Of Man And How It Aligns With His Ever Changing Universe.
Infant Lapsing In The East. (An Original Prose + Poetry)
Why Do People Blame Their Flaws For Unacceptance Or Disapproval?
The Malady Of Being Driven Excessively By Dreams And Ambitions
My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian student who is a Dtuber, 📷 Psychologist, Poet And Sports Writer/Analyst. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off steem can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers
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