Friends let me tell you a quick secret listen up.
Men do NOT cheat on women they love. They can't. They won't.
I know this freaks you out right cos you've heard men are dogs.
Let's take Prince Charles for example. The woman he loved was Camilla Parker-Bowles. His parents commanded him to marry Diana and as a dutiful son, he did.
That was the beginning of the end of Diana. She wasn't loved, she was duty. Plain and simple. On the eve of their wedding, Charles was in Camilla's arms. Even though at the time Camilla herself was married hence her surname but Charles was her love. So stripping herself naked despite marital vows was easy, this was her Lord, her everything, the man she'd die for.
Diana borrowed Camilla's man for a season and yes she had William and Harry but as soon as Diana died, Camilla divorced her husband and went to find Charles who welcomed her with open arms.
Remember that while married Charles was always finding occasion to sleep with Camilla.
Try to get it. Two women can have the same body shape, intellect, emotional maturity and attitude but the one that captures a man's soul is the ONE. She can do no wrong.
So even though you marry her guy, he'll keep checking her out on Facebook, WhatsApp, liking her pictures on Instagram, Snapchat etc. You can never be his wife even if the Pope commands it. You're on borrowed time and like Mariah Carey says "all things in time, time will reveal".
Many marriages are on tilted legs not because the woman did any wrong per se or even the man in the case of Camilla's ex-husband. Somebody else just owns that heart.
And with minimal effort, the heart will keep yearning for its owner till the day of death.
So Kings do that girl a favour, if she's not the one, no matter how much favour she has done for you, resolve to pay her but never marry her. Spare her the misery of competing with an invisible person, in your heart who'll make her existence miserable.
Solomon said rightly " Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man were to give all the substance of his house (to procure) love, it will be utterly contemned".
You can't buy someone's love or work for it. You can work AT it but you must have it first.
So lovers tonight while you lay ensconced in your lover's arms ask this one question: "Am I the one you love, the one that sets your soul on fire?" A man always knows who he loves and women too as we see up there with Camilla.
Take the answer to your question with grace, it may be negative or positive but will save you a loveless relationship or deepen the magic you have.
May love find you. Have a great day!