<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 01 May 2026 05:13:13 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@kathtea/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Let Me Pee!]]></title><description><![CDATA[I was visiting the hospital for my monthly / bimonthly mental health check-up, after all, I had my dosages changed. This was already second visit this week as they messed up my appointment time the last]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/let-me-pee</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/let-me-pee</guid><category><![CDATA[freewrite]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2020 08:55:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/7ohP4GDMGPrUi4oa8yTU7QwSHZ29mRt9qof85ejCza2AX5wqVuGUPuxMb5Jdf7GRA291KXVX9r2cF6eFYWzAnHkanNFZQybtqWJ9?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[This sucks.]]></title><description><![CDATA[CW cancer diagnosis So recently my sibling told me they might have lymphoma. They were over for Chinese New Year and was quite sick throughout, apparently it was supposed to be on the mend by then. They]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-sucks</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-sucks</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2020 06:16:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[When they say that Sims is not a "real game"]]></title><description><![CDATA[Don't understand why "REE-L gamerz" like to bash Sims players. It's very much a sandbox game, people take pride in Elder Scrolls toolboxes but Sims is "not a real game"? Yeah nobody]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/when-they-say-that-sims-is-not-a-real-game</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/when-they-say-that-sims-is-not-a-real-game</guid><category><![CDATA[freewrite]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 17:51:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is this what a Karen sounds like?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Customer looks at Best Buy tags, heads over to it, asks me the usual questions like "is this for a boy or girl" and stuff so whatever. Then came the big event, a debate that should have never]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/is-this-what-a-karen-sounds-like</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/is-this-what-a-karen-sounds-like</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 12:25:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[I feel like a failure]]></title><description><![CDATA[Despite being in the best place financially and mentally in my life, I still feel insecure af when coming across old schoolmates. I feel like they are judging me for being in this shop instead of maybe]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/i-feel-like-a-failure</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/i-feel-like-a-failure</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2020 12:29:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cats: review adapted from a conversation with my brother]]></title><description><![CDATA[I watched a few bootleg clips on Twitter. It looked bad already in potato mode. Guess what? It's worse in HD on a giant movie screen. Certain characters keep looking right into the camera. It's extremely]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/cats-review-adapted-from-a-conversation-with-my-brother</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/cats-review-adapted-from-a-conversation-with-my-brother</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2020 05:23:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgn9RX8wbR9trfATxa?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Freewrite: Did I get to keep any physical memento from a person I grieved?]]></title><description><![CDATA[I never managed to keep anything my grandfather had. He died in his 100s. I wish I had his dentures, often soaked in a plastic cup on the medicine shelf, back then it was mysterious cup of liquid to me]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-did-i-get-to-keep-any-physical-memento-from-a-person-i-grieved</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-did-i-get-to-keep-any-physical-memento-from-a-person-i-grieved</guid><category><![CDATA[freewrite]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2019 12:10:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Freewrite: I enjoyed Fleabag yet it hurts because love sucks]]></title><description><![CDATA[I finally finished the entirety of Fleabag. I am not in tears but it gave me some satisfaction for certain characters and just downright heartache and pain for others. YES, there will be spoilers so be]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-i-enjoyed-fleabag-yet-it-hurts-because-love-sucks</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-i-enjoyed-fleabag-yet-it-hurts-because-love-sucks</guid><category><![CDATA[freewrite]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2019 05:24:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgnGcceAc4yxYiiQJy?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ranting On Twitter: July 18th to July 25th]]></title><description><![CDATA[Truth, when a boy does something wrong "boys will be boys", when a girl does something wrong "you need to be a good lady". @shialacunt boys aren't easier children than girls, y'all]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/ranting-on-twitter-july-18th-to-july-25th</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/ranting-on-twitter-july-18th-to-july-25th</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jul 2019 09:52:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgn3UgQQWYtjMwe8SS?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Job Hunting + Facial Treatment]]></title><description><![CDATA[Diary Entry: 18 June 2019 13:50 I've only found 2 places to apply part time for... 🤣 Still searching! 14:06 I think my problem is that I am extremely conscious of my scarred face and I really REALLY hate]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/job-hunting-facial-treatment</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/job-hunting-facial-treatment</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 12:33:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgnLptASYau6YhVUK8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[It's Pride Month! Here's Some Pride Fashion Ideas: PART 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, all you wanna do is let people know how you identify BUT you don’t want people telling you to “stop shoving it down our throats”. So why don’t we roll a high number for stealth and do it without]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/fashion/@kathtea/it-s-pride-month-here-s-some-pride-fashion-ideas-part-1</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/fashion/@kathtea/it-s-pride-month-here-s-some-pride-fashion-ideas-part-1</guid><category><![CDATA[fashion]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 15:05:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgnG7xshsQo7ZWzaj8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be Inclusive This Pride Month]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to be inclusive this pride: -be kind to others even if they don't identify the same way you do -if they feel hurt by something, step back and listen to why they're hurting -even if don't fully understand]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/lgbt/@kathtea/be-inclusive-this-pride-month</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/lgbt/@kathtea/be-inclusive-this-pride-month</guid><category><![CDATA[lgbt]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2019 04:50:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Clique Mentality in the Local Drag Scene]]></title><description><![CDATA[Unpopular opinion: the Malaysian cosplay community is more accepting and welcoming than the Malaysian drag community. It's funny because I do drag up in cosplay but ONE time I show up at drag event as]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/lgbt/@kathtea/clique-mentality-in-the-local-drag-scene</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/lgbt/@kathtea/clique-mentality-in-the-local-drag-scene</guid><category><![CDATA[lgbt]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2019 07:45:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Blue, da ba dee da ba (hair) dye: Etude House Two Tone Hair Colour Treatment Review]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today, I bring to you a review of Etude House Two Tone Hair Colour Treatment in Fantasy Blue 5. Etude House’s official website markets this with “‘Two Tone Treatment Hair Color’ allows you to create beautiful]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/beauty/@kathtea/i-m-blue-da-ba-dee-da-ba-hair-dye-etude-house-two-tone-hair-colour-treatment-review</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/beauty/@kathtea/i-m-blue-da-ba-dee-da-ba-hair-dye-etude-house-two-tone-hair-colour-treatment-review</guid><category><![CDATA[beauty]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 27 May 2019 06:26:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgnGeuXiLHQWqCWRTk?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Remembering My Grandfather This Lunar New Year]]></title><description><![CDATA[Originally posted to r/lastimages: The last photo I have of my grandfather. He died in 2017, at the age of 102. He migrated from China at age 10 on his own.  ~~~ My grandfather, whom we called “gong]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/death/@kathtea/remembering-my-grandfather-this-lunar-new-year</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/death/@kathtea/remembering-my-grandfather-this-lunar-new-year</guid><category><![CDATA[death]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2019 11:39:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/BRWJ2YmdUFozvi1TFqcAtjm7Wm7ge9rD1Cgvt4KqE3RbfRE6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Freewrite: Stopping T & What Had Happened to My Face]]></title><description><![CDATA[A handful of you may know that I was on T for about 3 months or so. Later in that third month I broke out in severe acne. If I were just a regular trans guy working a regular job, I would not have been]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-stopping-t-and-what-had-happened-to-my-face</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/freewrite/@kathtea/freewrite-stopping-t-and-what-had-happened-to-my-face</guid><category><![CDATA[freewrite]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2018 09:06:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2ufhwNgM3qHKGxq8wdcWAiFpcm29FF1vQ7VZHkTuxDE3tsar2dMia5A37JZFoh8rpMgmpFH4R?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[This Week's (Kath)Tea - As of 13th June]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm back with this week(s)' tea! I put on a false nail on my index finger because it was too short. Not very stealthy as you can see… Then my thumb nail snapped so here’s another falsie. My acne situation]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-as-of-13th-june</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-as-of-13th-june</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2018 12:48:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2ufhwNgM3qHKGxq8wdcWAiFpcm29FF1vQ7VZHkTuxCh2vdk1wUkDjHBuN8vcmxassGEWUJPYH?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[This Week's (Kath)Tea - As of June 5th]]></title><description><![CDATA[What’s the tea ya’ll! I got this sticker from Tanya of I Need Diverse Games when a troll said this and she made merch of the phrase. Since I am having severe acne, it was essential that I got some new]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-as-of-june-5th</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-as-of-june-5th</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2018 10:14:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2ufhwNgM3qHKGxq8wdcWAiFpcm29FF1vQ7VZHkTuxDVn7odXWDCS3EK89t8NJjjXpKhp5o4d3?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Good, The Bad, The Ugly: Modelling Jobs, Anxiety & Acne]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Good I went to Singapore for a couple of days to meet a British photographer. He was a fascinating person. He was dressed in a tunic dress and leggings with his nails polished in gold glitter. While]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/the-good-the-bad-the-ugly-modelling-job-anxiety-and-acne</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/the-good-the-bad-the-ugly-modelling-job-anxiety-and-acne</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2018 10:09:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2bP4pJr4wVimqCWjYimXJe2cnCgnBBtUWfD3S8dDesY?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[This Week's (Kath)Tea: May Week 3]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here we go boys, gals, enby pals! Here’s a tip, if you’re 5 foot-ish and a size UK8 top, there’s probably cool nerdy tees you can wear from the boys’ section because apparently they only make Marvel tees]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-may-week-3</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/blog/@kathtea/this-week-s-kath-tea-may-week-3</guid><category><![CDATA[blog]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kathtea]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2018 07:02:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/x7L2VSNEiyAB5Ux7nxKmLo6yLyEJT6Jt5yhNCUpGMZw6VFBFdRQjKkeLgsYh6kUBVfvtmdFNLGFnH89?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>