Sometimes you have to deal with people you don't like. I'm sure we can all think of people who make our life sour. They drain the life out of us And make us feel bad about ourselves.

While many people say that it's not okay to wish negative things on your opponent.
I disagree with this. It's human instinct for us to feel ill will towards our enemies. But at the same time, We shouldn't let it fill our lives with negativity.

Get Revenge!

I don't believe in taking revenge, Like slashing their tires. Or causing them direct harm by punching them in the face. (Even though that might sound like a good option right now!). These methods end up hurting you too. Like you may go to jail, Or get a fine.
But you can still get the best revenge.

Cut the person out of your life!

You should always be cutting out those negative people in your life! They can pull you down, and over time kills your self-esteem. Cutting them out will enable you to focus on your success. This isn't always possible depending on your situation, but you can certainly try.

Improve yourself

When you let anger become your motivator, You can do incredible things. Use that pain to drive your motivation, While it won't sustain you forever, it can help you get through the first difficult steps.
Start your business, Grow your income! Get in incredible shape.

Start working hard now.

Dont' worry things will get to them

Or maybe they won't. But with all the social media, and ability to connect to other people makes it super easy for them to "see" what you are doing.
If they see you on Facebook, With you new business. In the best shape of your life. You'll hurt them in the best way possible.
Those people that live to pull others down, Hurt the most when they see a person they hoped to destroy, Succeeding and doing well. By that time, You probably have forgotten that they even exist. And you'll be so happy and cheerful in your life. It will eat them alive.

So many people waste their time dealing with toxic people. But what we need to do, is cut them lose and remove them.
In some cases with family, Coworkers or bosses. You may be stuck. But find that escape route.

Ignore them

Sometimes cutting them lose isn't possible right away. But you can ignore them while you work on your path to self-improvement. Don't acknowledge them. Dont' give them attention. Ignore them.
For many toxic people, They are toxic because they are narcissistic. And narcissists love attention. Just be careful that they do not try and harm you because of it!

Don't let them hurt you!

It can be hard sometimes Because often these people learn how to push your buttons. They know exactly where to go.
Which can cause you immense pain. Reach out to those who are there for you. That can help you!

I dealt with this a lot with my dad. In my teen years, There were boys at school who used to hit me. They would punch me and kick me. Throw rocks at me and spit on me!

I'd come home, and my dad used to tell me I deserved it. Because I was annoying to those boys.

I later became suicidal And started cutting myself.
I didn't understand why I deserved to be treated like that.
I was confused and alone.

Finally, my art teacher saw that I was struggling. She took me aside and talked to me. I explained the whole situation to her, and she realized I had a very warped view of the world.

She began helping me channel my pain and anger into art. Which eventually turned me into an artist. She made me realize that as long as I value myself, I have value.
No one can decide your worth, or how you deserve to be treated
YOU DECIDE!

These toxic people are everywhere, And you can't let them bring you down!
Just because my dad doesn't feel I deserve love, Doesn't mean that I don't deserve love. It means he's an asshole.

And by taking control of my life. And focusing on myself. I can get revenge while moving on and becoming the woman I always dreamed of being!