Behavior of a child Affecting the relationship of a "couple" - UNDERSTANDING is REQUIRED

Maybe other people experience this kind of situation in a different way. Most parents want good for their children for their future and give to them what they need that sometimes parents didn't realize - it was not healthy anymore.

Guiding children while they grew up needs a lot of understanding and patience. Understanding why they are acting strange different from the other child? Children are a gift from God for the parents like me. They are our happiness and enjoyment. We must admit that sometimes children if they are not listening to us we lost our patience especially to the children who are really impatience to listen to their parents and nothing to do but to watch TV and play a video game instead of doing first his homework. There are instances where the parent does not understand the children wants to do unless you mingle with them.

Parents have different ways of raising children and often the mother disagrees with his partner in life for their children in what they should do to correct the character or personality of their children.

But isn't it when you get angry you get hot. It feels like a fire is burning inside of you? Well, let that fire die down through a pause. Bring your attention to this moment, not the past, not the future but right now. I like to do this by taking three deep breathes... Try to put your full attention on your in-breath and on your out-breath "become" your breath.

Sometimes you need to understand your partner because not everything you know already? The same applies to women or men. We often think we have enough experience in life but we do not know that our life partner's knowledge and skills are much more than ever. Just learn to listen once and learn to be humble to gain understanding and peace.

Approach your loved one and interlock your fingers with theirs. Hold their hands for about 10 seconds. You know it is said that it is impossible to be mad if you are holding hands. One study showed that participants were able to cope better with pain and discomfort when they were holding hands because the act of holding hands decrease the levels of stress hormones like cortisol in their body. I hope it works for you... LOL

The idea is if one of you has a high temper your partner must feel those emotions quickly and be calm and talk gently. But if your partner is to rough even you do everything you can to calm down, better to keep quiet and let the heat disappear and talk to each other and explain your side. If she/he didn't listen and raising the voice, take a hammer and smash his/her mouth! Just kidding!!! LOL

Just hold her hands gently - squeeze it slowly then put your arm to her shoulder then whisper, "I LOVE YOU"... Then smile...

Is that so sweet showing your love to your partner! Then you can talk about of how you are going to do to understand the behavior of your child. Then both of you must look back to your past when you are a child and how your parents taking care of you to understand the attitude and situation of your child. But do not compare your past into the future of your child, that is different. To turn back your past is to realize how your parents love you.

Embrace your loved one for a heart to heart hug. As you embrace your loved one, close your eyes and breathe deeply, match the tempo of your breath with theirs and become aware that you both are alive.

After about 20 seconds or so, open your eyes. I guarantee that you will realize just how precious it is to be alive... You are still here your loved one is still here and you still have an opportunity on this earth to choose love...