Whenever we start a relationship with someone, we certainly have that love will be eternal, and we forget the possibilities that some day, that relationship can become a page of pain in our lives and become an impossible love and we need to overcome.
Commonly this happens when the relationship is not part of God's plans in our lives, when we love the creature more, than the creator "that is not my case," and that is one of the characteristics of a relationship that does not come from within of the interior, heart of God.
When breaking any relationship is undeniable that both parties are injured, perhaps one more than the other, that depends on the way everything ended.
Some people, because they carry the burden of truth, manage to have the common sense to end the relationship without hurting the other person and without causing any rupture, for loving God and understanding that love is the splendor of the tangible image of God in the life of the human being.
But there are also other people who can not accept the loss, use means or instruments of injustice that have a power of internal destruction, that corrupts any expectation or hope and even manages to shake the faith, in which the person can have in God a possible restoration, when it is allowed to be used by the plates of impiety and of evil, when it refutes and despises all efforts of reconciliation of the other part.
There is nothing more painful than receiving the contempt of the people we love the most, maybe one day you can go through and experience that bitter moment, which we receive in exchange for the sweet honey we nurture for the loved one.
Whether you are a Christian or not, read carefully those simple words, for I believe in God that they will bring relief to your precious soul, and silenced your spirit distressed by injustice why God is with you and knows what is right and has the best for your life.
I know that contempt hurts a lot, maybe you say it's easy for me to go up and say all that, but I'm telling the truth that it's not easy, many women of God who suffered for different reasons but the feeling is the same, and all They managed to overcome without having to resort to any resentment, and that is why I write you because I believe that you and I can also achieve, through the power of God that operates in us, sometimes God allows us to experience or suffer from certain things to get closer. more to Him, and recognize that all He can, have faith in Christ, for our Lord is the physician of doctors, and when we touch him with our heart, we are healed by the faith that is the power of God that operates in us .
Matheus 21.22. "And whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive."
It is wonderful to know that if we are in God and He is in us, if we have full faith in him, everything we ask in prayer we will receive.
Most of God's men and women were despised. Ana was ridiculed for not being able to generate children. Joseph (from Egypt) was devalued by his brothers for ... Dreaming! Abel was despised to death for pleasing God in a specific worship. Moses was forgotten by Pharaoh. David was despised by his father, by his brothers, by his wife and by his first enemy, Goliath.
God has wonderful news for you. Read slowly, slowly: God does not despise anyone! When I underestimate myself on earth, I can look to heaven and God smiling for me. Ridicularized here below, estimated up there. Job was despised by the woman and the friends, but still sick, he heard from Eliú: God is very great, but no one despises. Eliú, everything wrong, prophesied true.
I would like to end with this word of comfort: Jesus Christ was despised by the religious and politicians of his time. Isaiah 53 says that the supreme contempt happened on the cross, and I tell my brother the same cross of contempt today is the cross that brings us reconciliation, and if you are being despised by someone related to a relationship, deposit on the foot from the cross your relationship, deposit your request for forgiveness and the life of the person you love and hope and trust and let Jesus do what is possible for you to overcome the impossible.