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SHOW SCRIPT 04 JANUARY 2018
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SONG 1: “The Calling” - Wherever You Will Go
Hope: This past week, I concluded the series about sexual togetherness. If you want to have a look at it, check out
Tonight we are going to talk about encouragement:
What does “encourage” mean? It means to inspire courage.
Most of us have areas in our lives in which we feel insecure and lack courage. This often prevents us from accomplishing the positive things that we would like to do. There may be lots of potential within your spouse that your encouragement can unlock. You've got the key to unlock your spouse's potential, talents, and dreams. When we receive positive words, we are encouraged to do better, be a better person, and to go after our dreams.
SONG 2: Coldplay - “A Sky Full Of Stars”
When you encourage your spouse it literally places courage in them.
SONG 3: Chris Isaak - “Wicked Game”
To encourage and support your spouse.
I know you can do it, I believe in you, I trust you and I am here for you. When you do not support and encourage your partner you can do irreversible damage to your partner's self-esteem. You can suppress all the desire to perform better, to achieve his/her dreams. If you say harsh words and negative words you can trample your spouse's dreams and you are putting him/her down. In doing so, you are a stumbling block in your own life and you are preventing your spouse from being better and trying to make a better life for you.
SONG 4: Shaquille O'Neal - “(I Know I Got) Skillz”
I cut this song short because it was random and irrelevant to show topic. I take requests and reserve the right to stop playing it or cut the song short. I played this song instead, Austin Mahone - “Send It” (Lyric Video) ft. Rich Homie Quan
If your spouse if an unrealistic dreamer.
I don't suggest that you support him unconditionally and maybe you already lost thousands because he/she jumped into unrealistic business ventures and now he/she can't understand why you are not ready to jump with him/her into the next venture. There are, however, still ways to be supportive even if your spouse is an unrealistic dreamer.
SONG 5: Tune Mere Jaana Kabhi Nahi Jaana | Gajendra Verma I “Emptiness”
You can say something like this, "more than anything, I want you to succeed in life, but also I don't want to see you fail again. I am going to be supportive of your new idea, but I insist that we talk with a financial advisor, which can provide us with the necessary information and knowledge up front. Then let's jump together or decide to not jump at all." When you say this, you are expressing your desire to be supportive in the most responsible manner.
SONG 6: Kevin Gates - “Posed To Be In Love”
Too much cussing so I cut the song.
Song: 6.2; Gruppo Sportivo “Tokio” (Original Single Track)
Random so I cut this one too.
Song 6.3: ”So Nice” summer samba by Bebel Gilberto
When your wife expresses the desire to join a weight-loss program, for instance, don't say, Why don't you just stop eating? That will be a non-supportive attitude; that will not only crush her dream but can also hurt your marriage. To encourage and support your spouse will require time, energy, effort, and maybe sacrifice on your part. Encouragement and support can often be the difference between success and failure.
All of the above are also applicable to your children, and if you are an employer, to your employees. These principles can be applied in all sectors of life. Sources
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SONG 7: “Hopelessly Devoted to You” by Olivia Newton-John
Love & Marriage 49 - Encourage your husband and words of affirmation.
By now we know that husbands and wives are very different. Husbands will respond better to certain specific types of affirmation and encouragement than wives.
Women must try to truly understand the immense power you have in the life of your husband. Every wife can make a king out of her husband. She has the power to build him up or tear him down. I wonder, sometimes, if most women really understand that. Do you truly understand the immense power you have in the life of your husband?.
If the wife doesn't believe in her husband, it has a very devastating effect on him. It is so closely linked to his potential. It does not matter what others think, he can deal with that, but what his wife thinks and says matters a great deal. Men need affirmation and encouragement as much as women, they have to have it, they thrive on it. It is not something that men really talk about, but every man feels it when he experiences that his wife is behind him. That is where the saying comes from: "Behind every successful man is a wife."
SONG 9: Runaway - “The Corrs”
I previously did write about words husbands like to hear, but here are a few more you can say to your husband.
You are a great husband!
Thank you for being my best friend.
You’re great.
You are so good at fixing things.
You made me feel sexy when looking at me like that!
You are so sexy when you are fixing things.
You are my man!
You are my protector.
You are awesome!
I am waiting for you in the bedroom.
Hoschitrooper [Badass-Oak]-Today at 3:06 PM
Hey Kubby, you have to know, if we have a man flu, it's like how you have to handle us MEN all times. We need these nice words all the time. We are like bears but the softie in us needs these warm words to give us the strength to bear..
SONG 10: “Poets of the Fall” - Carnival of Rust
You’re an excellent provider.
You make me feel like a lady.
I love being with you.
You’re so smart.
You’re amazing!
Thank you, that was really kind.
You’re so strong.
You’re a hard worker.
When you hold me tight, I feel safe with you.
Source for words of affirmation list
..... to be continued.