You must make the choice,
to take the chance, if you want anything in life to change.
Do not set yourself on fire in order to keep others warm. The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don't always soften the bad things, but vice versa, the bad things don't always spoil the good things and make them unimportant."
Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.