Rethink your mind:
Our emotions can brighten our desires, and the best thing for us. Emotions based on imagining that something is the case and dedicating some time to 'simulating' in your mind what life would be like under particular circumstances.
In many cases it has been shown that going with our mind is the right thing, so try asking yourself the question and choose the first answer that comes in to your guts then you know what is right.