"What has kept the crowd from evolving into greatness is not lack of talent , but lack of confidence, not the presence of challenge but, lack of will power to chase after challenge"
The psychological wall stopping many people today from entering into the dream of their life is what others think about them. It is easy to give out opinion virtually for anything as it appears to be the cheapest commodity on earth. Just so many serious minded fellows have failed to work on there dreams because of the opinion of others.
There are three kinds of people you need to overcome their negative perception about you on your way up.
But note, you can use their criticism to fuel to fly with your dream.
These set of people includes:
- Your immediate family
- Your professional co-leagues
- People you meet everyday
The people close to you: your family, your friends your spouse and children are the ones who either fuel your dream or delay or even destroy it. Even in places of work your professional colleagues are supposed to be celebrating your tiniest effort but at times they become too professional and see the odds against your dream. greatness in life generally, responds positively to the quality of your interaction on daily basis.
Fulfillment of any destiny is not dependent on the ability to dream big dream, but also largely depends on the strength of your relationship with this three categories of people.
REFERENCE: Ritchie Felix (Rising into significance, July 2016)