Hello steemian
There are hidden qualities any responsible suitor who is looking for a wife not a woman goes in search of....
Are you a manager? The hard state of Nigeria has made every bachelor conscious and alert on the kind of woman he is bringing into his FOREVER world. No reasonable man wants an extravagant lady for a wife. Rather, he wants a woman who will preserve His naira and kobo.
Can you cook his meals? Sweetheart! It may surprise you that not all men love to eat out. Some prefer home made meals to Mama Mgborie's food or Toscana menu. It is left for you to give up your zeal of perfecting in makeover and plough back that energy into learning the nitty gritty of cooking in catering school.
Can you handle a man? Naturally, every woman ought to know how to handle a man. God has instituted that singular knowledge in every woman so get to find yours out now. By way of handling, I mean SEX and Affection to your husband. Try your best to satisfy your man depending on the way he wants it.
Can you love and take care of his aged parents? From afar, a real man knows a woman whose eyes dey house. Unlike a lady who has eyes on the street. No man can condone any woman who will come into his home to maltreat his parents just because they are old and incapacitated. Get ready to love and pamper them the same way he cares about you.
Can your represent him out there? Some men are in charge of empires and contracts. They need a woman who is heavily loaded intellectually, well qualified and expedient in some more areas of life. Gone are the days when men fall for timid and unbrushed women. Only the deceitful men want a backward lady for a wife. This will enable him ride on her.
Can you assist him in training his kids? It is said that women have natural attitude of discipline in them. It is also said that the raw attention a child needs to become balanced in life comes from women. No core African man wants a nanny in his home immediately after the wedding. He wants to see how well domesticated you are before the services of a maid.
Can you take care of the home in his absence? Imagine if you are married to a man who has a tight schedule of business and work. In this case, you are bound to play the role of man and woman. You have to become independent and principled if not the home will lose its actual destination. No man wants an extremely soft woman that can hardly come in his two days absence from home.
Can you be faithful and be the woman he married? Virtue is of importance to any man looking for a wife but partying and looks is of importance to any man looking for a girlfriend. Let your loyalty to him be extended to that thing in between your legs. I must tell you *the most grievous way to hurt a man is spreading your legs to his fellow man. Don't be a public toilet but the toilet only him can access in his bedroom.
Can you keep his secrets? Men hate flippant woman. Be conservative with your words.
Can you keep his home neat? Cleanliness is next to Godliness. Men hate to see their homes so dirty especially when they are home with friends. The last time I checked, better decisions get to spring up from a clean environment and more healthy kids are bred from such environment too.
Thank you have nice day