***Hallo Steemian lovers... ***
"Sometimes, failing to get what you want is good luck"
Yup, failure is a necessary thing for humans. When dare to dream then you must also be ready to fail alias disappointed. Breaking up, divorcing, dropping out, or not escaping a scholarship: they are all common failures in everyday life.
However, failing is part of the process of achieving dreams. But if the failure comes over, that does not mean you can stop. Instead of giving in to your dreams, you just have to get up again. Because the best dream is what you are striving for today, this is the 4 things you have to keep fighting for!
1. The dream comes from within your own heart. Do not dream because of emotions, let alone just want to prove yourself.
Take time to reflect back on your dreams. Is your dream really your dream, and not someone else's dream? Are you chasing your own star and not someone else's star? Then, about what will you feel when you reach your dream later?
Maybe you will hate to admit it, but maybe you are not pursuing your own dreams. Do you really want to go to the best college in Indonesia or simply want to make your parents proud? Maybe not if you just want to prove to your school friends that you can?
First, make sure that what you are fighting for now is your own dream. Pure without emotion or revenge. Do not let you plunge into a race run without knowing which way to run and what rewards you can get at the end of the game.
2. Your dream is worth fighting for. Although tired and should be bleeding, do not give up before you get.
If you want to achieve something, never stop before it works. To succeed you have to exert all your skills.
Well, especially for you who already believe the same dream, struggling to achieve it. Make sure you do your best so that failure will not make you sorry or feel guilty. The choice is in your own hands. Although there are forces that you can not fight out there, you still have a stake in determining whether it works or fails.
3. Let's make peace with yourself. Occasional fails does not mean your world will stop.
When you have a big dream and it fails, certainly not easy to accept it. But, sadness and disappointment can not just hinder your next move. Do not be afraid others will laugh at your failures. Yet, nothing is absolute in this world. Is not that failing still a little cooler than not trying at all or staying in your comfort zone?
Do not let a failure stress you. Think what you can learn from the failures you are forced to accept. Think of someone who has managed to achieve their success. Do you remember that they ever failed too?
When you are successful, people will be busy looking at your success. They may forget or even not know if you too have failed.
4. What you want can come in many different ways. Do not close your eyes, but take advantage of every opportunity that comes as well as possible!
Not just one, but there are many ways to achieve your dreams. If you can not succeed in A, please try B, C, D, and so on. This is one of the reasons why you should not deny any opportunity or opportunity that comes to you.
Do not let excessive trust make you "fanatical" in one choice and ignore the other possibilities. Whatever it is, seize every opportunity that comes to you and enjoy your journey to success.
Armed with these 4 principles, hopefully you can be more prepared and mature to fight for your dreams. Even when other people doubt you, then you're the only one who has to keep standing upright. Yup! You can not shut up, but you do not have to run anyway. Please keep going to your dreams, while enjoying your process toward your success.
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