Shaking my head, vigorously.
There's nothing wrong with wearing whatever you want to wear - don't change that for a man, or anyone else. Be free.
Also getting pregnant takes 2 people so it won't be "through your weakness" it'd be through the both of you having sex. It'd be his responsibility just as much as yours.
Also virginity might be important to you but to claim it's a virtue it's a bit too far
PS: Not meaning to hate at all, just my opinion as I believe we need to move forward from these roles that only reinforce oppression of women. Peace.
RE: A NOTE TO MY BOY FRIEND