In the aspect of pet peeves, there are majorly two things that can really hit me so hard on my bone marrow. Which I normally encourage humans to live and do what they would want others to do to them. I'm someone who is grooming myself to live in that standard where I don't call someone else negative names if I don't want to or get pissed whenever that is said to me by someone else.
Unnecessary shouting and ignorant nagging are two things that can piss me off and make me lose it. Let's picture a situation where a cup falls off and you hurriedly picks it up and your senior sees it and instead of looking over it. Seeing it wasn't done on purpose begins releasing words that even a dumb person would be forced to speak out of anger.
Such uncalled vocal eruption can make one lose patience majorly when it becomes a habit that no day passes with unnecessary shouting on someone all because you feel the house is your husband's house and you have the right to behave and exhibit immaturity.
For me, I see that to be immaturity. As much as I can tolerate, the aspect I get so pissed at and finally voice out is saying all many words in a very high pitch and you are still calling me negative names that even ancient fathers if waken from their sleep won't even tell what those words mean.
This comes with so much irritation. I didn't know anything could get me pissed or annoyed until I became a victim. Staying in a house where you eat but the unnecessary shouting you get makes it look like the shouting is draining away the whole food made it intolerant of that unhealthy slaps to my senses.
Because anytime she begins with that, it shatters my peace of mind and the serenity of the environment. My sister-in-law is someone that can shout and nag on a particular thing for more than hours.
Sometimes, once she finishes, I try to stop such a particular thing just for everyone to have peace of mind but she would always have things to nag and shout on.
When I finally realized she is the kind of person that won't rest, she does exchange barrages of words just to make one feel unhappy and uncomfortable. I had to give her the space she needed because sometimes she nags and I ask myself "what's really the cause of this excessive noise."
It irritates me so much that I can't do anything with someone who dares raise his or her voice on me. Once that is done and I sense it, you have just earned zero rating from me. The only way to save myself the stress of shouting and exchanging words like an insane person is by giving the person the space he or she deserves.
Nothing is more important than my peace of mind. Once I know you find pleasure, in doing what takes my peace of mind, the only way out is by just giving you space in any form I could.