Do you consider yourself to be a happy person? If so, what really makes you happy? Perhaps you are expecting something that may make you happy, such as finding a good job, establishing your own business or buying a luxury.
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A lot of people experience some degree of happiness when they attain a certain goal or get a desired item. But do that surge for happiness last long? Most times, it is only temporary which can be disappointing.
Happiness has been defined as a state of well being that is characterized by relative permanence, by emotions ranging from contentment to deep and intense joy on living and by natural desire for it to continue. Happiness to me is not a destination or goal, but a journey.
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We all want to feel happy, and each one of us has different ways of getting there. However there are certain attributes which we need to imbibe. I have adopted these attributes so far and they have been yielding positive result. I strongly believe you will benefit a lot if you follow them.
Find your purpose
- Purpose is aim or goal of a person. Purpose gives us direction, it motivates us, and gives us reasons for our existence. Discovering why you were born and using it to contribute to the society is one of the best things you can do to yourself. Those who believe they are contributing to the well being of humanity tend to feel better about their lives. They know they are really impacting the lives of others. Try contributing to any community you find yourself and will definitely find happiness.
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Do thing you love - Follow your passion
- Doing things you love is one of the ways of finding happiness. Doing thing you don't have passion for is are always tiresome and uninteresting. However, doing what you love will make you more engaged and dedicated towards them and you will feel more productive and enthusiastic in doing those things. Drawing/painting is what I love doing and I can't spend a day without doing it. I always feel a river moving in me whenever am creating art. When you absolutely do what you love, you won't feel tired anymore, moreover it will always be fun doing all the task. Hence, you will find you will find yourself more productive and you will definitely find happiness.
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Listen to your heart
- Always listen to your heart and it's choices. You are the only one who knows what fills you up. Your friends, acquaintances and family members may think you had be great at something that really doesn't float your boar. I know it is usually complicated cause I have experienced it, but in order to find happiness, you have to listen to your heart.
Push yourself, not others
- When I was a little younger, I usually think that someone else is responsible for my fulfillment, but as I got older, I came to realized I was really the one in charge. You are responsible for your life and things you do which in turn yields you happiness. Once you realize that, you have the power to get where you want to go. Just quit blaming others and start taking charge.
Accept change (Be open to change)
- The only thing that is constant is change. Change will happen, sometimes in unexpected way. While I was in higher institution I realized that the possibility of getting a job in my course of study was pursuing was slim, I had to look for other options, harness my talent and think like an entrepreneur which in the long run has helped me a lot after I had graduated. So always make contingency plans and emotionally shore yourself up for the experience.
Never walk alone
- In life, finding happiness and fulfilling your destiny cannot be attained by doing things alone. Have a team of your interest. Walk with those who believe in your dreams and are willing to help you achieve them while they achieve theirs as well. With the team of your interest, you will walk your way towards achieving your goals easier and finding happiness.
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Fnding your way to happiness are not limited to those that I have listed above. However, they are key factors that have helped me a lot over the in my journey so far. If you've got yours, you can as well contribute by sharing with us. Your contribution will be highly appreciated.