Once you have value in someone's heart, they will always know how to make you feel safe ...
I still think once people love someone who is determined to love seriously to go long distance, then one will never let their lover feel uneasy, even if only a little with a fingernail .
I remember the first time me and my boyfriend were also obsessed about jealousy or not jealous. Someone says jealousy is the spice of love, if not, then feel very bland. There are also jealous people who show that they are in love, and that their lover has a satellite that makes them "jealous" jealous, then prove that their lover is worth, and should be proud of it.
But not. I'm a type of absolute worshiper. Meaning that when I love someone, I will devote my love to people, making people feel warm and happy to become my lover. But it also makes people feel less stuffy.
I know my personality, but I still do not want to change. And how do I hand over, will be expecting the same thing. It means I absolutely love them, they also absolutely love me, do not make me think about the appearance of someone else.
That's why when my friend's high school friend asked me to text him, just a few harsh words, but I know that she has a good relationship with her boyfriend ... Even though he is in In the morning, responding to the message in moderation, I also ducked up for jealousy.
Later, he coax of all kinds, I was the object of crying. Now think again, still seen as a farce of a beginner love.
After that, both me and my partner find a way to solve the problem. That is, I do not need to enact any embargo on communication with him, nor will he ever bother me any more.
Because I have come to realize that, once you have value in someone's heart, you will not need to scream for him, or for the world to know, their job is silent to admit, Nodded that recognition.
And also because my lover realized that, just because I love him, the appearance of women around his life was attached to my "sensitive" label. So let me less worry, let me feel safe and secure, he will always take the initiative to keep safe distance with the "sensitive" relationship mentioned above.
Remember when I accidentally read his inbox, there was a message girl please get used to admire the paintings he painted. I raise my eyebrows, pull down, my little rep's beautiful line is like this:
"I do not have a need to meet other heterosexual friends, I have a girlfriend, my girlfriend is very sensitive, I do not want to make her sad.
So I'm happy all day, grinning like a bad guy. But as I believe, when someone loves you enough, they will behave similarly. Do not say cats do not let that fat, but once you think to the one you love and respect them, even the fat to the mouth of the cat, cats also go to the bottom