How are you all? I hope you are well. I am also well, Alhamdulillah. Today I want to talk to you about a real truth, which we have all probably felt at some point in our lives. The thing is,
If you trust someone blindly, they will deceive you, thinking you are blind. This is the cruel truth.”
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Trust is a very important thing in our lives. We trust everyone in some way or the other, family, friends, loved ones. But the problem is when that trust becomes blind. That is, when we trust someone so much that we don't question any of their actions, and we ignore their mistakes even after seeing them with our fingers. That's when the real danger begins. Because people know that no matter what I do, this person will trust me blindly. And many times, people use this opportunity badly.
Some may think that blind trust means love or sincerity. But to be honest, blind trust is closing our eyes. By doing this, we only allow others to hurt us and cheat us. And when one day the truth comes before our eyes, it seems that we have really become blind.
We often see that many people make this mistake in friendship, relationships, and even in business. They trust a friend or loved one so much that they don't care about their bad sides at all. Later, it turns out that that person is the one who hurts the most. Then not only does it break our hearts, but also our trust. It gets crushed.
So can't you accept as true with all and sundry? Of path you could. But not with closed eyes. With depending, we need some foresight, a few precautions. You must take into account that humans could make mistakes, and people can exchange. So even if you believe someone, it is not smart to surrender your self completely.
You need to remember one thing very well: a person who really loves you will not take your questions or your warnings badly. On the contrary, he will be happy that you have thought so much. But the person who wants to blindfold you, he wants blind faith, you have to understand, He may not be leading you on the right path.
From my own experience, I am telling you, many times in my life, I have trusted people for no reason. I thought that no matter what they do, they will not think anything bad. But later I saw that the reality is different. In fact, the cruel truth is that blind faith never strengthens anyone, but rather weakens them.
The last thing is, trust, love, trust someone, but with your eyes open. Because only then can people deceive you when they know you're not seeing anything. So remember, conscious faith, not blind faith, is the real power.