I have come to understand one thing in life. As a man, you have a lot of responsibilities. First ,you must be successful. How do you become successful? You must learn to start. How do you start? You must learn to believe you can do a particular task. Yes if you can develop this kind of mindset, you will go higher in life. Quote me right now, in this present generation, everyone wants to associate with people who are successful and that is just the truth. Another thing you must do is to check the kind of friends that you keep. There are some friends that you will have and you are finished in life. There is this guy i know, he is a good guy actually but the kind of friends he kept, ruined him and today he is ruined. Learn to avoid some people in your life. For goodness sake,you do not need all the guys, select positive minded people,successful people, study them, ask them how they made it in life, be humble while following them, believe me there is no how you will follow a successful man and you will not be influenced by that success. You will come to see yourself succeeding also. In this our generation, if you are not successful, a lot of people will look down on you, even your family can look down on you because they just simply know you are a big minus to them. To be successful, you must pay a price and that price is working hard,there is no other way to success, just like our daddy
My dear guys, you must learn to believe in that little dream, nurture it, groom it, be consistent with it, continue to be focused, believe me one day, that little effort will yield huge success. I have come to understand that in life, everything is possible, it is our mindset about a particular thing that determines how far we will go about that. This things are just natural, natural success is just working so hard and the result will show forth. During that early stage, you will face a lot of stress, challenges and a lot of storms but those challenges will only be temporary and not permanent ,this you must understand, do not give up ,what is worth doing, is worth having. Failing in that particular business is normal but truth is,when you do not give up,you will triumph. When i was in the university, i had a lecturer who will always tell us, there is no magic to success rather than working very hard. You can not work hard and you do not see a positive result. Being successful will make you bold in the society, it will attract people to you, it will make people respect you and it will make people listen to you when you speak.
Be positive from today, change your mindset about life, nobody owes you anything in this life, your success lies in your hand, i tell you,you can do it,it is very possible. Wake up immediately and work, work as if there is no Today, work as if you want to die, quest for success, beat your chest and say you can do it, believe in yourself ,do not let people tell you to go and sit down that you can not do it,surely, they will always tell you ,you can not do it, ignore them and work. Very soon they will believe in you and they will run back to tell you to show them the way. You are a champion and champions wins, you can win. You will agree with me that even the female folks will not want to associate with a man that is not successful, this is the society we live in and this is what we have come to see.
To every successful man, there is always a pay off some day. I want to challenge you today to go and get success, do not let anything stop you.
I assure you, nothing can stop you.
My name is Inyang John, i am here to inspire and motivate you.
Cheers!!!