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Someone called me ugly today. Some inconsiderate person. I didn't get hurt or sad by his comment. Just his thought process, to me now is clear and getting more grose & grose as the day passes.
By reading dale carnegie's book " How To Stop Worrying And Start Living" I learned that no one kicks a dead dog. It means they have a problem with you being happy and successful, they will only stop degrading you once you die.
Such situations motivates me, When you have haters that means your doing something right. Your on the right track and I truly believe that. People who want to get to your level, will try to pull you down with the ropes of insults, annoyance, mind games etc.
I honestly don't know how I have caused any inconvenience to that person. All I know is I am on the right track. But it sucks to be around people with a low grade mindset. I call them energy vampire's.
I didn't react, I just carried on the conversation. Inconsiderate people will never admit to it, even if you confront them. They go on defensive mode. Also, I believe they are not trust worthy.
Would you trust a vampire!?
The best way to deal with such people is to ignore their comment or avoid them completely if they are bothering you so much.
The day ended with a glass of Masala Hot Chocolate with barbecued Marshmallows.
They serve at this urban cafe called Diesel Cafe, in the city of Mangalore, India. I was there with and another person. Having a cup cheered me up, and eliminated all negative vibes. It was delicious.
Small cups of hot beverages does make a lot of difference, that I learned today.
At the cafe, we did a nano project for a friends upcoming birthday. One of those videos, where different people pass each other a birthday wish on white paper and it combines together to looks like one video.
I was one of the 25 participants and had to submit my part of the video. But like always, I forgot to take a picture of that. Felt like I was back in High School. 😄
So guys, if you have any inconsiderate people in your life, and if you can't avoid them, either turn their volume down or just ignore.
Thank You for reading.
Have a blessed and a wonderful week.