In order to be a successful person is not an easy thing, we have a lot of process that we need to go through to forge us into a tough person and never give up. Because success is worth fighting for, not coming by itself. Like a piece of iron that is forged into a tool that can be utilized by us humans.
We notice how a blacksmith hits an iron with a big hammer to be formed into a knife, a sword and so on. The iron burned to a bright red and continued with the hammer of the hammer so slowly the iron that was originally less useful for humans turned into a very useful tool.
So it is with us, to be useful for ourselves, family and crowd. So we need to be forged with various things, we need to undergo the process of education, through the process of failure, learn to persevere and consistent in trying. After that we are all able to pass then we become a successful person. A tough person in living this life. Beneficial to others, personal capable and willing to nurture and help others.
So if we feel that we are in trouble now, be assured that we are being hammered, we are going through the process of forming our identity. The temptation of these painful things later will change us for the better in the future. Never stop, never disappointed. Because after the process we've all gone, then the success is with us.