Hello dear Steemians!
Why do people become strangers to each other? Why does this chasm come between close people? And can it be avoided?
Is it necessary to avoid it?
People rarely change drastically. Habits are changing. The way of life changes. Views are changing.
It's like a labyrinth of your life. There are billions of roads and you choose which one to go.
At some point in you the desire to wander through the mountains wakes up. But for your companion is more comfortable and easier to sit at home. So why are we taking to the mountain someone, who does not want it?
It's great if your companion supports you. If you are on the same wave and you are drawn to adventure together. If you think in one direction. But if you want to go up, and a close person it absolutely does not need it, then there's nothing to be done.
Your way of life changes, so does your environment. This is normal. You do not need to drag someone along, even out of good intentions! Nothing good will come out of it!
And maybe this person does not need your mountains! Or maybe he has sore knees and a he is fear of heights ?!
All you need is to go your own way. Your people will always be somewhere nearby. And if it's not your people, so maybe the chasm is the thing?