Hola apreciados amigos, es un gusto para mi estar nuevamente compartiendo con todos ustedes. El día de hoy me uno en la iniciativa promovida por
en el denominado Tag del autoestima, así que comencemos:
Hello dear friends, it is a pleasure for me to be again sharing with all of you. Today I join the initiative promoted by
in the so called Self Esteem Tag, so let's begin:
Of course, with my virtues and defects. The first step to love ourselves is to accept ourselves as we are, with all our essence that characterizes us, the important thing in this step is to know how to recognize when we have harmful attitudes and work on correcting them and be better people every day.
Always, inner confidence is the main engine that gives us the necessary energy to achieve our goals. I have never doubted myself or my capabilities, I know that with that attitude of self-confidence I can achieve great things.
It depends on who and what kind of opinion they give me. So far the opinions about me that really interest me are those of the people who have given me their trust and support, in this group are mainly my parents and sisters. They have been the ones who have motivated me and supported me in the construction of my life, I am always attentive to any opinion they give me, the rest I am always open to hear opinions that contribute to good in my life, the negative criticism I ignore them very cordially.
We all deserve to be happy, but if we do not work on building our inner happiness and emotional stability we will never achieve it. I believe that the starting point to achieve that feeling called happiness in us is to work on our self-love and inner appreciation and then transmit those feelings to the rest of the people.
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I think this answer has been more than clear in the previous questions (laughs). I am a completely expressive person, I don't hold back at all, I don't feel embarrassed to talk in front of other people, on the contrary I am very extroverted.
At some point in our lives, we are all immersed in a toxic relationship, whether it is sentimental, friendship or family, I already lived it and it cost me a lot to get rid of it, because and this is something that I still do not understand about human beings, sometimes we allow our thoughts to idealize that such relationships at some point will change for the better making us cling more to them, when our reality shows us that this will never be so, on the contrary every day the situation gets worse even more. Fortunately there comes a point when you say to yourself: No more! And you really do it, then is when you get a learning from that situation and you start to value and love yourself much more and you do not allow and will not allow other toxic relationships to affect you.
For me, my plans, goals and purposes, my opinion is extremely important, how am I going to achieve a goal, if I don't apply critical sense to my plans? I believe and trust my opinions, and when it comes to giving them to other people, I always try to make it as constructive and positive as possible.
Human beings constantly live making mistakes, knowing how to accept them, recognize them and of course not to make them again but to learn from them and apply those lessons in our daily lives will help us to be better people, I learned to forgive my mistakes and apply those lessons in my life.
It depends, I would never say no if I was invited to eat pizza (laughs). I know how to say no when I consider that the situation I refuse will affect my life, the body or those energies that it transmits to us never fail, and when we have that feeling that something will go wrong or we will be harmed we must listen to it and learn to say NO without feeling bad and without having a guilty conscience, our mental health should always be more important than the opinion of others.
I accept constructive criticism those that are given to improve every day, to educate, learn, reflect and everything positive that I can receive from them, I ignore the discredit, the bad intentions and negative comments. Because you attract what you think, that is why we must learn to think positive and to discard those "bad vibes" that generate those negative criticisms from those toxic people.
Debemos valorarnos cada día como personas, reconocer todo lo que somos capaces de lograr, nuestra cualidades y nuestros buenos sentimientos, la construcción de una alta autoestima comienza dentro de nosotros mismos, amándonos y respetándonos de esta manera el resto de las personas también sabrán todo lo grandioso que podemos ofrecer y valoraran nuestra esencia.
We must value ourselves every day as people, recognize all that we are capable of achieving, our qualities and our good feelings, the construction of a high self-esteem begins within ourselves, loving and respecting ourselves in this way the rest of the people will also know all the great things we can offer and value our essence.