And the most destructive sentence
This senstens is has zero value.
A am very disappointed. ME A AM….
This is the sentence a get form my mother when am doing something she is not agree to even if my reason to do it make 100% sens....
A AM…..disappointed
mom: Think often about how you have it. Do not think it's good with such long distances.
(so am tying to make a nice sms, meetings her on the distances mabye a bit of wisdom to try make her see the big picture.)
me: I understand with the distances. I'm better here than in Norway .. We all need to find our own way in life. where its bring us now one now. Nina is getting marry in the spring and a want to go. so am going to postpone my trip to then. And celebrate Christmas here. Actually it's better for me, I have to move in December and cant do two trips to Norway this year.. We can do facetime on Christmas eve put me at dinner table. 😃. *
mom: *Is obviously very disappointed that you do not go home for Christmas.
am wondering what makes you like Vancouver more than Norway.
By the way, Have a good weekend.
Mom and dad.
me: a have a lot of friends here, and was very depressed in Norway for many years. A don't want to live in that energy anymore.. ‘
Usually am just lying to them. this time am not doing it anymore. a think a made a nice sms. but a got the A am very disappointed anyway. like how is it going to make a better conversation bets me. It's just a defense for her am understated it to but still.
If am felling disappointed am just answer. : Aha a see understand have a nice holiday and see u soon. Or just and ok is working fine to.
So now we going to see what the response is going to be...lol a cant...wait..this sms sems maybe not so bad but understand this. its not the first time a got the. A AM VERY DISAPPOINTED.
so conclusion am not lying anymore, so she can be DISAPPOINTED if she want to be. now the Challengs is not to care.