At age 20 and above you will realize that love alone is not enough to make a relationship work. There are many important factors to consider.
Things like; Work, mindset, distance, Restu family to lifestyle turned out to determine jg survival or not a relationship.
You are no longer a person who survives just because the reason is too much love, is near his family, or has long been in a relationship.
In this age you should be more rational. A serious relationship is not just about seeking equality, but more about how to unify the differences.
In a third person relationship must exist, depending only on you who gave him the way in or not.
What you need to remember is sometimes to let go of it better, not because you stop loving it but because you know he who you love can not be invited to build a future together.
-Anonymous