We all grew up to realize that life has its own way of creating us to become who it wants us to become and not necessarily who we desired to be.
Some of us as kids desired to grow up and build stuffs that will help humanity. But as we grew up, we got hit by life's challenges, this distorted our general view of life and reformed us in another way.
We began to see liars and cheaters living a more comfortable lives. We began to see con men finding their way to the top easily. Everything starts looking like life is pushing us so hard to become who we never planned to be.
However, if you earnestly desire a happy life, you must free yourself from the grip life has placed on you and start creating the person you desire to be.
Creating the person you want to be
Creating the person you want to be is not an easy process, but it is achievable and the best gift you can ever give to yourself.
To effectively create the person you want to become, you have to first study yourself and understand why you behave in certain ways. Ask yourself what you want and who you really want to be. Then start a process of unlearning those things that make you behave in ways that are not in line with who you want to be.
After that, start making a conscious effort to shape your character by deliberately and constantly practicing the behavior that fits the personality of the you that is in your mind. When doing this, you must make a decision not to allow other people's perception of life or character influence you.
Creating the person you desire to be is not something that can be achieved in day. It takes hard work and persistence, but the reward is worth it.
Much love from me to y'all.
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