I have a big, fat minus - I do not know how to forgive. Do not forgive people, remember everything bad that was once said or done for years...
The offense is not eating, not tormenting, she digs deep and POPs up when I encounter a man, you see him in town, or worse. when I have to communicate with him.
It does not spoil the mood, it just reminds you that there are people that could spoil the soul, to strike back and break the heart. I'm almost certain will not be able to let go of some grudges will never forget, though, is and will be easier, just ain't gonna react and all. But forget, stop responding to those who once wiped their its feet, was able break the, I not will be able.
Mom always says you can't do that. Put your pride far away, I'm sorry, it's just people with their faults. Were they perfect, they would have behaved differently, treat them as primitive animals. Here, they say, the cat you forgive when shits in the corner, and im sorry.
One thing the cat and the pile in the corner, and another really my soul, my feelings, my life. Yes, wrong, but can't do anything with them. As we are unable to forgive the deceased father for the way I treated my mom for how she was wronged and cannot forgive those who are still alive and around.
Don't know how to deal with it, sometimes you just want it all to merge once and for all somewhere. Say of a not forgiven offense and tumors, and Oncology, sometimes I think it is. People dragging a lifetime load of grievances, and it is negative, bad emotions, perhaps they give this terrible disease which completely changes the person, because before the death we all change, once all over-estimate, understand that never had the ability to accept and understand.
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