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Over the years, humanity has been putting themselves in problems for wanting to appear differently to who they really are.
We all want to have some dignity, and we end up hurting ourselves than helping ourselves.
We want the whole world to see that we are comfortable when we are struggling. We want to appear rich when we are in abject poverty.
Well, their is nothing bad in using denial as a psychological means of getting over an unpleasant situation. But not to the extent of lying to ourselves
The poor keep buying expensive items to appear rich, while the real rich people are still living a low key life. Hmmm
Robert Kiosaki said in one of his quotes that the poor buy the luxuries first, while the rich think of investment first.
This quote is not just ordinary, it helps in differentiating the real differences between the rich and the poor.
When you invest your resources before you spend them, you will always have more to invest and to spend, but if you spend before you invest, you will always have little to invest and to spend
I love one of my very old quotes, let me share it to prove a point
If you save money, you would be broke, if you spend money, you would be broke. While not save money and be broke.
See, nobody is interested in you impressing them. In fact, the world is too busy to notice that, you do yourself a lot of harm while trying to impress people
While would you go for a flat when your income can only get you a self-contain?
While would you buy a car, when all you can maintain is a bike?
While would you go for Range Rover when all you can maintain is camery?
While would you do things to impress others, when the real you is not happy inside of you
It is always good to aim better, to want better and to think better, but all the same, you are the only one who know who you are
Because your younger brother just built a secondary school does not mean you should start building a university when you know you cannot avoid it
Stop killing yourself, stop carrying those unnecessary burdens all around, decide to free yourself today.
Trying to impress people with stuff like that is like standing before mirror which can only interpret your appearance and not the real you.
for mirror is a liar, when you appear before it smiling, it would tell you you are happy, when you appear before with with your face frown, it would tell you you are sad. But your true picture can be seen in your heat.
People might tell you what you are not based on your appearance, but your heart would always reveal the real you that is in you to you if you try to seek your heart
Why all the debt in the world?
Their is a popular say that say you should cut your coat according to your size, but I say, cut your coat according to your cloth size.
If your cloth is not enough to make you a flowing gown, I'm sure it would be enough to make you a short
Don't allow what you see to push you, don't go for things you know you cannot maintain.
A lot of people are already in mess, for trying to be someone else
It is not too late to turn a new leaf, desire to change for a better today. Let the whole world begin to see the real you, we all want to enjoy your unique originality. Stop faking it.
Thank you for reading through, I do hope you get some help from it.
I'm taking out time to celebrate my brother 
